Nola Darling
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Would you reconsider an engagement/marriage with a SO because of their dysfunctional family?
My SOs family is extremely dysfunctional and it really puts a strain on our relationship. He says he wants to get engaged as soon as he gets his self together but his family situation makes it hard for him. Every time he gets into a bind, it's ME who has to help him out but when his family is in a bind he is the FIRST to open up his wallet. There is more to the story but I don't want to put everything out there.
I'm also afraid that he will bring the way he was raised into our relationship. Sometimes his upbringing(immoral & triflin ways) seeps into our relationship and I have to correct him.
What do you guys think?
My SOs family is extremely dysfunctional and it really puts a strain on our relationship. He says he wants to get engaged as soon as he gets his self together but his family situation makes it hard for him. Every time he gets into a bind, it's ME who has to help him out but when his family is in a bind he is the FIRST to open up his wallet. There is more to the story but I don't want to put everything out there.
I'm also afraid that he will bring the way he was raised into our relationship. Sometimes his upbringing(immoral & triflin ways) seeps into our relationship and I have to correct him.
What do you guys think?
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