TinyT
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I was reading an article today that stated that exposed some stats on secrets that spouses/partners keep from each other. The Top secrets were:
I have a secret bank account
- Would you keep a secret bank account? Do you currently have one? And why are you keeping it a secret? Is it for personal purchase that have a high price tag? Or are you keeping large amount just in case the relationship ends?
I have an 'office spouse' I adore
- Do you have a person of the opposite sex at work that you talk to about office gossip, about your person life; have frequent lunches or dinners with? Does you spouse/partner know about it, why/why not?
I'm going to pretend I never bought that (or at least lie about what it cost)
- So uhm this one I can relate to, but as a young child. I can remember going shopping with my mom and when we would get home she would leave all but a few small packages in the trunk. We would go inside and after my dad was off doing something else, we would bring the packages in and keep them in mine or my brother’s closet. LOL. In the end, do I think what my mom did was harmful. No, I don’t. But some people may argue otherwise. Does it matter the cost of things you hide or should you disclose all items you purchase?
I earn more than you think
- I am unmarried, but even in a dating relationship, I have had men flaunt their salaries and I have had others who don’t make mention of it at all. In this day in age with women catching up with and sometimes surpassing men in the workplace, some of their egos can’t take knowing what you make. Or even, they may find that you make more and want to get money from you. So basically I never discuss salaries. Do you discuss salaries with partners/spouses; does your spouse/partner know your salary and any bonuses you make?
I spend more on my mistress/boyfriend #2 than I do on you
- Men and women have affairs. And most times the mistress or boyfriend #2 is getting gifts from your spouse or you. What happens when you find your partner has a mistress or even you yourself have a boyfriend # 2? And when you then find that they actually spend more on that person than they do on you. For instance buying you pots and pans and buying her a diamond bracelet? Does the amount even matter?
I have a secret bank account
- Would you keep a secret bank account? Do you currently have one? And why are you keeping it a secret? Is it for personal purchase that have a high price tag? Or are you keeping large amount just in case the relationship ends?
I have an 'office spouse' I adore
- Do you have a person of the opposite sex at work that you talk to about office gossip, about your person life; have frequent lunches or dinners with? Does you spouse/partner know about it, why/why not?
I'm going to pretend I never bought that (or at least lie about what it cost)
- So uhm this one I can relate to, but as a young child. I can remember going shopping with my mom and when we would get home she would leave all but a few small packages in the trunk. We would go inside and after my dad was off doing something else, we would bring the packages in and keep them in mine or my brother’s closet. LOL. In the end, do I think what my mom did was harmful. No, I don’t. But some people may argue otherwise. Does it matter the cost of things you hide or should you disclose all items you purchase?
I earn more than you think
- I am unmarried, but even in a dating relationship, I have had men flaunt their salaries and I have had others who don’t make mention of it at all. In this day in age with women catching up with and sometimes surpassing men in the workplace, some of their egos can’t take knowing what you make. Or even, they may find that you make more and want to get money from you. So basically I never discuss salaries. Do you discuss salaries with partners/spouses; does your spouse/partner know your salary and any bonuses you make?
I spend more on my mistress/boyfriend #2 than I do on you
- Men and women have affairs. And most times the mistress or boyfriend #2 is getting gifts from your spouse or you. What happens when you find your partner has a mistress or even you yourself have a boyfriend # 2? And when you then find that they actually spend more on that person than they do on you. For instance buying you pots and pans and buying her a diamond bracelet? Does the amount even matter?