How Do You Feel About Calling Your DH/SO "Daddy?"

I call him daddy when he's hittin it and I refer to him as daddy when talking to the kids. Otherwise I refer to him as hunny. I don't apply any ridiculous philosophy behind it. He likes when I call him that and I don't mind it so *shrug*
 
likewtr4chklit said:
That's usually the response I get :grin:

It's called strokin that ego while he's strokin that thang (just made that up myself) :yep:
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It really is about stroking his ego and it works just as good outside the bedroom too. Whenever he does something you didn't ask for or maybe you had to nag (gently remind him on several occasions) and you respond with a Thank you daddy or Thank you Big daddy he will do whatever he can to get the same response out of you over and over again.

I have to say I almost laugh to myself when I see the response from men when I say "daddy", to me is such a little thing to do to reap such a good benefits time and time again. Now, he does need to be worthy of title but I have seen unworthy jokers start to get their act together too because they want to live up to that title of protector or provider or even a good lover.
 
Je Ne Sais Quoi said:
That's what I'm talking about. he might end up putting me in the hospital :lol:
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You are too funny!!!! He is going to do whatever it takes to get that same reaction out you every time from here on out, that I consider to be a good thing.

Just hold back your snicker when he starts to refer to himself as "daddy", just remember you still have the power to give him a reality check whenever it is necessary.
 
No ma'am, I do not. I do not care for PAPI either. Most Haitian women called their dads: papi, poppy, or however you spell it.
 
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SmileyNY said:
lmao! I was thinking the same thing. Like... Come on now!!! lol! Idk why some people (no one on this board, of course) think being a boring prude is appealing... :look:

"omg, I would never!"
"I could never ever ever!"
"Not in a million years!!"
"I love my daddy! No way!!"
"Eeeeewwww!"
"That's the worst!!"

:rofl: :rofl: :rofl:
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:rolleyes: Not wanting to call your man daddy does not = boring prude

I just think there are plenty of other ways to get down and be freaky without that.
 
ladysaraii said:
:rolleyes: Not wanting to call your man daddy does not = boring prude

I just think there are plenty of other ways to get down and be freaky without that.
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Omg! lol. For THE last time... I didn't say that! What I said was some people (in general!) like to pretend to be prudes (when they are not) because they think it makes them look "good" or "better". My point is, there's nothing appealing about being boring.

So... Yea. We're talking about 2 different things. I am not concerned about your, or anyone else's, level or method of "freakiness" :look: :lol:
 
Well, Dh is a daddy so I call him daddy sometimes. He may not be my daddy, but he is a daddy.:look:

ET: Now I don't call my wonderful father "daddy". I call him "dad". Calling him "daddy" would make me shudder.
 
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No, not really. It's . . . interesting, if you think about. Then again, lots of people call someone they are sexing "baby," which is also interesting, if you think about it . . .
 
qchelle said:
I would say 'papi' though. I've never said it, but I'm not against that at all :lol: I would probably feel a little silly saying it and would have to be coaxed lol, but I wouldn't get the completely and utterly grossed out feeling I get when I think of saying 'daddy' with sexual undertones :lol: I'm not of Spanish descent, have never referred to the man who raised me as papi, so no problemo papi lol.
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I've said Papi when I'm playing around or being flirty...I have never called my dad, Papi, and certainly wouldn't. It's not the name, it's that they would have the SAME name. Nasty. Icky. Bleh.
 
mwedzi said:
No, not really. It's . . . interesting, if you think about. Then again, lots of people call someone they are sexing "baby," which is also interesting, if you think about it . . .
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That is a really good point. I wonder if I would still feel weird about calling him daddy if it was as acceptable as calling his baby
 
SmileyNY said:
Omg! lol. For THE last time... I didn't say that! What I said was some people (in general!) like to pretend to be prudes (when they are not) because they think it makes them look "good" or "better". My point is, there's nothing appealing about being boring.

So... Yea. We're talking about 2 different things. I am not concerned about your, or anyone else's, level or method of "freakiness" :look: :lol:
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ITA and this sentiment is what I was referring to when I posted up thread, so my apologies to anyone who took offense.

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ive called my ex daddy....one time we were in the store and i called him that lol. i call my real daddy, daddy...its two different things lol. its like if you date someone with the same name as someone in your family i am sure you are not thinking about your fam member when your s/o is putting it down. my ex has the same name as my grandfather, uncle and cousin lol.
 
I see nothing wrong with it. I think it's because I'll usually call my SO "papi" instead of "daddy" (papi seems sexier to me).
 
Prostitutes call their pimps "daddy" and I think it's part of the psychological dominance thing.

I still call my father "daddy". Those two things need to stay separate.
 
I call my father daddy and I'm a daddys girl. If my SO likes being called daddy and he's worthy of it I'll call him daddy too. :weird: I enjoy stroking my man's ego.

If my SO had the same name as my brother I'd still call his name while he's beating it up too.
 
MissMasala5 said:
:lol: Well, it's definitely an ethno-cultural thing amongst all kinds of people of color, exclusive of class. My sis calls her DH "raja", for example. That means "king" in Hindi, which can also be loosely translated into "head of the house", or... "big daddy" :grin:
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Assuming we were talking about Americans, what your sister calls her dh in Hindi isn't really fitting in this convo considering the fact that black Americans tend to view race and class ALOT differently than others across the globe. :look:
 
This thread is bringing back some memories with my ex-SO.
lawd that man loved to hear "daddy"....especially in a lil fake baby voice.....:look:
 
Shooo I don't even call my father daddy or dad I call him by his nick name. I just posed the question to DH and the way he sounds maybe he might like to be called daddy ( Laaaawwd help me) :look:
 
I call Dh Papi in our room, his full name among other adults and Daddy infront of DS. I used to call my daddy daddy but now I call my daddy Grandpa.
 
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