How Do You Feel About Calling Your DH/SO "Daddy?"

I call my DH papi and I think it's sexy LOL he likes it too so hey why not. I've never called him "daddy" but the word papi is daddy in spanish so same thang.

FlowerHair said:
My SO calls me Mama sometimes...I don't call him Daddy though. Or perhaps I have at some point :look:

I didn't call my father Daddy so it wouldn't bother me.
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Thats cute DH calls me mamita.
You guys are a bunch of prudes LMAO I keed!

I'll never understand this board.

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Papi is ok things ususlly do sound better in spanish but I wouldn't call a SO daddy as that grosses me out. some people can pull it off I am not one of those people. I choose not to,i'd call out his real name first before I called him daddy. *shudders*

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MissMasala5 said:
:lol: At some of the responses in this thread. Hilarious.

So, y'all mean to tell me that you actually feel some kind of way if a man ever referred to you as Mama, Lil Mama, Baby, Girl, Baby Girl, etc? Calling a man Daddy, Big Daddy, Big Poppa, Papi (for those of you with Latin SOs) is really that bad? Like, for real?
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Calling me mami is cool. That can be sexy but I as m not gonna call you papi or daddy. Thats just me though. That is,not sexy to me.

Op wasnt talking about saying it jokingly frim what I gathered, she was talking bout really calling them that. Eww.

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I call my DH Daddy or Big Daddy in bed/during seductive moments.. :yep: and when Im talking to the kids about him as well. I dont just walk around referring to him as Daddy tho :nono:
 
SmileyNY said:
lmao! I was thinking the same thing. Like... Come on now!!! lol! Idk why some people (no one on this board, of course) think being a boring prude is appealing... :look:

"omg, I would never!"
"I could never ever ever!"
"Not in a million years!!"
"I love my daddy! No way!!"
"Eeeeewwww!"
"That's the worst!!"

:rofl: :rofl: :rofl:
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You know, I have learned that some women who perpetuate this are the freakiest creatures per some men Ive talked with and then some are really genuine prudes, most are the former though. not talking about the LHCF ladies though.

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lala89 said:
Yeah I don't get how not calling your man "daddy" makes you a lyin, frontin, prude:look: but I know what you mean about the pearl clutching. If there were more coloring threads/ a subforum I would go hard in the paint :sekret:
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...And there is is! :lachen: I can always count on comments on this board to be blown out of proportion, exaggerated, twisted all up & for people to put words in my mouth. If thats what you gathered, fine.. But I didn't say all that!



Ladybelle said:
You know, I have learned that some women who perpetuate this are the freakiest creatures per some men Ive talked with and then some are really genuine prudes, most are the former though. not talking about the LHCF ladies though.

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So true! Lady in the streets, freak in the sheets ;) However, being that this is a mostly anonymous hair board, I would think more ppl would be candid.

Either way, it's all good :yep: I was just joking around, anyway. Lighten up, y'all. It's Friday! lol

NOW... ALL MY LADIES SAY "HEY. HEY. HEY, DADDY." :giggle:
 
I'm about to bring the mood down a little (sorry in advance; I'm sure things will pick up after this post lol)
I called my stepfather Daddy. He was the best man in the world to me. He passed away when I was about 9. Years later, my mother remarried. She was asking if I wanted to call her husband dad or daddy and I looked at her like she was crazy. I remember promising myself back then that the only man I would refer to as Daddy was my real Daddy.

And I certainly am not a prude :poledancer: lol
 
"Daddy" makes me think of my 70 year old father. So while I am "coloring" he is the last thing on my mind!!! That does make me a prude, because my coloring vocabulary is quite " colorful" if you catch my drift.:blush:
 
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I call mine Daddy, Big Daddy, Papi, King Ding-A-Ling, The C00chie-slayer, and whatever else comes to mind when I'm getting some or when I want something.
Some of ya'll should try it..spice things up a bit. In conversation, he might say that he doesn't like it...but in the heat of the moment...he'll love it! :lick:

Daddy in his eyes means "being the head or in charge, having power, yadda yadda". Men like to feel like they are all of that. It doesn't have that paternal feel to it when it's said that right way.:yep:
 
kweenameena said:
I call mine Daddy, Big Daddy, Papi, King Ding-A-Ling, The C00chie-slayer, and whatever else comes to mind when I'm getting some or when I want something.
Some of ya'll should try it..spice things up a bit. In conversation, he might say that he doesn't like it...but in the heat of the moment...he'll love it! :lick:

Daddy in his eyes means "being the head or in charge, having power, yadda yadda". Men like to feel like they are all of that. It doesn't have that paternal feel to it when it's said that right way.:yep:
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:dighole:
:lachen::lachen::lachen:
 
kweenameena said:
I call mine Daddy, Big Daddy, Papi, King Ding-A-Ling, The C00chie-slayer, and whatever else comes to mind when I'm getting some or when I want something.
Some of ya'll should try it..spice things up a bit. In conversation, he might say that he doesn't like it...but in the heat of the moment...he'll love it! :lick:

Daddy in his eyes means "being the head or in charge, having power, yadda yadda". Men like to feel like they are all of that. It doesn't have that paternal feel to it when it's said that right way.:yep:
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LMBO! But she is right...Hubby knows it is a sign of respect. Whatever it takes to show him he's all that...

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Heck yea, I have seen and experienced the power of calling my man (at the time anyway) "Big Daddy" both inside and outside the bedroom. I have no problem whatsoever saying it again in the near future to my new DH/SO. To watch his chest expand and smile when I say "Daddy" is a sight I love to see. It is something that I say when it's only the two of us, it is a part of the private Lissa0821 that only he knows about. Its kind of my way of letting him know he has been my hero yet again, its not something I say everyday in conversation and trust me they usually know the difference and my meaning when I say it.
 
Doesn't bother me one bit. am and will always be a daddy's girl and still address my father as "daddy" but I do call my SO as daddy from time to time. I look at it as "stroking his ego" which we all know is necessary from time to time. They are two different men, different relationships, etc.
Ultimately it's to each his own...it works GREAT for me and mine
 
snillohsss said:
Yeah... I wouldnt like that either. I think it's ghetto as hayle if a man called me Lil'Mama, or Baby Girl. :look:
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:lol: Well, it's definitely an ethno-cultural thing amongst all kinds of people of color, exclusive of class. My sis calls her DH "raja", for example. That means "king" in Hindi, which can also be loosely translated into "head of the house", or... "big daddy" :grin:
 
I call my DH "sexy daddy" but thats mostly to irritate our teenager!


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I wasn't gonna but I'll bite. I have never called any one Daddy in the last 20 years. My dad is alive and clingy. So call anyone else Dad makes me kinda shutter. (Not vomit, so I'm better). I have not been called, lil mama, mama, or anything else by some one that I was dating. Now those Ninjas on the street are another story.

But then I'm not married, no kids. My parents called each other Mom and Dad (when that had kids). I noticed that since we are out of the house that has gone back to first names.

But hey, if that what your man likes and you don't have a problem with it. If you like it I love it.
 
I would say 'papi' though. I've never said it, but I'm not against that at all :lol: I would probably feel a little silly saying it and would have to be coaxed lol, but I wouldn't get the completely and utterly grossed out feeling I get when I think of saying 'daddy' with sexual undertones :lol: I'm not of Spanish descent, have never referred to the man who raised me as papi, so no problemo papi lol.
 
softblackcotton said:
My mom calls my daddy, "daddy" it kind of replaced his real name after they had me, but only when she is talking to me. She would say things like "daddy and I are going to the store" or "daddy and I were wondering where you are?" Or "tell daddy this" I could see myself doing that if I get married and have one child. My husband's name will sometimes be replaced by daddy when talking to the child.
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I do this to my daughter.
 
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