foxxymami
Well-Known Member
I don't too much like to put my biz out there but I'd like to know if any women out there have overcome this. I am sooo angry towards him. At first I didn't see it but now I realize that I get angry with him far too often and far too quickly.
It's so easy to notice your significant other's flaws and point them out, but it takes 2x longer to see your own. This is what I'm enduring right now.......looking at my reflection in the mirror. I can't honestly say that I don't play a part in the escalation of petty arguments that ensue. I used to point every finger on my hands at him, but in order to make this relationship better I have to work on the part I play
We're not perfect people nor do we have a perfect relationship. But, we love each other and are very patient in overcoming these issues because we want to start a life together. I'm looking to the other side of this dilemma.......where I won't be so quick to react in anger. I know I can do it, I just don't know how.
So what are the keys??
Is it the "choose your battles" line?
Is it that I have to learn to communicate my wants, needs, expectations without the anger in my voice?
Is it the "it's really not that serious" line?
If you need examples of my quick anger.......I will supply.
....................But, I'll be embarassed :blush3:
It's so easy to notice your significant other's flaws and point them out, but it takes 2x longer to see your own. This is what I'm enduring right now.......looking at my reflection in the mirror. I can't honestly say that I don't play a part in the escalation of petty arguments that ensue. I used to point every finger on my hands at him, but in order to make this relationship better I have to work on the part I play
We're not perfect people nor do we have a perfect relationship. But, we love each other and are very patient in overcoming these issues because we want to start a life together. I'm looking to the other side of this dilemma.......where I won't be so quick to react in anger. I know I can do it, I just don't know how.
So what are the keys??
Is it the "choose your battles" line?
Is it that I have to learn to communicate my wants, needs, expectations without the anger in my voice?
Is it the "it's really not that serious" line?
If you need examples of my quick anger.......I will supply.
....................But, I'll be embarassed :blush3: