Kinkyhairlady
Well-Known Member
I have been praying for a mate and I asked God to please send me someone before this year ends. Well I have not had much luck so far but a friend of mind introduced me to a gentlemen a few weeks ago and we seem to be hitting it off but my only issue is that he is not Christian, now he goes to church with his friend or his family when he can but that to me is not good enough. Also he is fairly new to the country so he has a lot of learning to do and adaptation. I don’t mind talking to him and being friends, but as time goes on he may want to move our friendship to another level. At that point I will have to decide do I give this man a chance even if we are not equally yoked? I know the bible states you must be equally yoked, but it is so hard to find a good Christian man in the church, even they are snakes at times. There is a shortage of men, so if I find a good one who happens to not be Christian yet, should I just take it or continue waiting which may be years I don’t know. First and foremost is my relationship with God and I will continue to pray, and I will not make a decision without his approval. I just posted this question because I am curious to hear how many of you have faced this issue whether you are Christian or not. Maybe you gave someone a chance who you at first thought was not good enough for you but everything turned out great.