Black Ambrosia
Well-Known Member
OP, it sounds like you are on the right track. You're not rushing into anything. When you do make a decision, you will do it with your eyes wide open and with knowledge of what the other woman is like.
You weren't in a committed relationship so I understand you not kicking him to curb because of the baby on the way. The only thing that's odd is that you seem to be taking so much responsibility for the outcome. You mentioned that you were playing hard to get for too long or something like that. You also mentioned that you told him how you felt before but he didn't believe you.
It sounds like he needed to step up his game back then and he needs to do the same now. He may be "the one" for you. Only time will tell. If so, he needs to put in the work on himself and not by pressuring you. That seems to be the focus of his energy right now.
You weren't in a committed relationship so I understand you not kicking him to curb because of the baby on the way. The only thing that's odd is that you seem to be taking so much responsibility for the outcome. You mentioned that you were playing hard to get for too long or something like that. You also mentioned that you told him how you felt before but he didn't believe you.
It sounds like he needed to step up his game back then and he needs to do the same now. He may be "the one" for you. Only time will tell. If so, he needs to put in the work on himself and not by pressuring you. That seems to be the focus of his energy right now.
