Monilove122
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I haven't posted in quite some time anywhere in LHCF and happened upon here today to check out recipes and here I am in the relationship forum.
So, just a little history...My Mom SUDDENLY and UNEXPECTEDLY passed away in May which left me devastated to say the least. Prior to her passing I was just starting to date this guy that she actually knew. His Dad and my Mom grew up together and we've known eachother for years. After her passing we grew even closer as he had a storm going on in his life as well. It just seemed we "fit"....we started doing everything together and because we were already friends, we had a ball together. Now mind you, we both tried our best to keep in perspective the fact that it could be that we were using eachother as distraction but because we were dating before things happened we pushed it off to the side. We were talking marriage and everything. Now, I know he had alot on his plate ad obviously I did too but we committed to one another to be honest and to do everything we could to make things work.
Okay, so now here is the scenario....this past Sunday morning I left him after sharing a great evening on Saturday of just movies and chilling at his house and things were fine. He kissed me and said I'll call you later because he was headed to work. Sunday night goes by, no phone call or word, Monday I get off work and have not heard from this boy so I go to his house after calling him and texting him all day and he's not home. Tuesday, no word...I text his best friend who tells me he's heard from him and he's fine...WAIT, HOLD UP!!!!
I finally hear from him Wednesday late afternoon, and he tells me "Sorry for making you worry about me. I truly don't deserve your concern but, I've been busy and I have alot going on in my life. I'm not happy with my life right now and need to be by myself. I don't want to go into detail or explain any further."
PUMP YOUR BRAKES.....I'm left with one question that he hasn't answered which is WHAT HAPPENED??!!!!!! I'm heartbroken as I just knew he was "the one". I'm confused and actually sent him several text messages saying NO, I will not just leave you alone and let you be. This is not how you handle things but rather I will give you 3 weeks of space and we will revisit this whole thing. However, after sleeping on it I think I'll just give him what he wants. Again, I know this boy has alot going on that I won't get into but, what happened from Sunday to Sunday night? He says it's nothing I did and that I did everything right...
I just don't get it. *HEARTBROKEN*
So, just a little history...My Mom SUDDENLY and UNEXPECTEDLY passed away in May which left me devastated to say the least. Prior to her passing I was just starting to date this guy that she actually knew. His Dad and my Mom grew up together and we've known eachother for years. After her passing we grew even closer as he had a storm going on in his life as well. It just seemed we "fit"....we started doing everything together and because we were already friends, we had a ball together. Now mind you, we both tried our best to keep in perspective the fact that it could be that we were using eachother as distraction but because we were dating before things happened we pushed it off to the side. We were talking marriage and everything. Now, I know he had alot on his plate ad obviously I did too but we committed to one another to be honest and to do everything we could to make things work.
Okay, so now here is the scenario....this past Sunday morning I left him after sharing a great evening on Saturday of just movies and chilling at his house and things were fine. He kissed me and said I'll call you later because he was headed to work. Sunday night goes by, no phone call or word, Monday I get off work and have not heard from this boy so I go to his house after calling him and texting him all day and he's not home. Tuesday, no word...I text his best friend who tells me he's heard from him and he's fine...WAIT, HOLD UP!!!!
I finally hear from him Wednesday late afternoon, and he tells me "Sorry for making you worry about me. I truly don't deserve your concern but, I've been busy and I have alot going on in my life. I'm not happy with my life right now and need to be by myself. I don't want to go into detail or explain any further."
PUMP YOUR BRAKES.....I'm left with one question that he hasn't answered which is WHAT HAPPENED??!!!!!! I'm heartbroken as I just knew he was "the one". I'm confused and actually sent him several text messages saying NO, I will not just leave you alone and let you be. This is not how you handle things but rather I will give you 3 weeks of space and we will revisit this whole thing. However, after sleeping on it I think I'll just give him what he wants. Again, I know this boy has alot going on that I won't get into but, what happened from Sunday to Sunday night? He says it's nothing I did and that I did everything right...
I just don't get it. *HEARTBROKEN*
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