Kinkyhairlady
Well-Known Member
I tend to over analyze things but this comment my dh made really annoyed me. He said he sees himself first then our kids. He claims it’s because he needs to be healthy and able to work to provide for them. If he’s not then they will suffer and so will I. I don’t know if it’s the mommy in me but my kids come first then myself. His reasoning is backwards in my opinion and selfish. I did not talk to much about it but I wanted to seek advice before I brought it up again. Am I right I’m thinking it’s wrong he puts himself first?