kayte
Well-Known Member
Dating this great guy....talking nearly two months...
really beautiful person in and out. All is going amazingly well
I feel very connected to him...super atttracted to him
he's a scientist and cerebral.... but so funny...and adorable
my date with him was a dream...in every way..took care of everything ..
I felt adored and spoiled
his kiss was explosive and he was the one wh insisted it was
OUR FIRS DATE and he was going home and respcted that and me. texted me on the way home... all of it wonderful
Making some great plans~
Last week we have a late night conversation about Spring break...he's a professor,and he was talkng about finishing finals and doing one makeup but glad to relax and have time ot see me...we decide on movies..and he cracks me up because he says it will have to be a boring movie as he will pay no attention to an interesting movie. meaning his attention will be on me
we leave it with he will call me
5 days go by and I'm puzzled and hurt..
A friend I trust reassures me if it were her and since it does not seem casual.... she'd be straightforward and just call and say's hey...what;s up
So I did..after praying on it. He said...he was hoping I would have called him ...that
so far he's calling and he likes to call.. but he wanted the phone to ring..from me
and to know I had missed him
He was upset! He said he figured on the weekend I had plans ..which I did
then I reminded him of our last conversation and he just reiiterated..it would have
been nice to hear FROM ME
I could tell he was honest ..he disclosed EVERYTHING he did over the last few days...so that I could see he was waiting to hear from me..we came to a lovely understanding ...
he confirmed if he was not into being together...he would never just
disappear...he would tell me
and going forward I can trust that...I promised the same
I don't think he is comfortable with me multi-dating as cool as he tries to be about it
He asked to get together tommorow and I changed the subject because I was startled
to get together right away..and I am going to Maundy Thursday service and soooo wanted as he is a believer to worship together but dint dare ask
but..finally revealed my schedule for the week..which did not include other dates
(after he said you are changing the subject)
he seemed more upbeat after that. "Are you glad to know what I'm doing?"
and he laughed YES!{ cas not dating anyone else this week
he said "So...to be clear I am CALLING YOU"..lol ..and before I could say when
he said TONIGHT
UPSHOT
he's going to church with me Thursday..when I mentioned it he said he secretly wanted to go with me but did not want to impose...I thought why not ask him
he is SUCH a sweetheart and so sexy
and then Saturday we are going to the movies
he knows I like classics and was going to research
but!
what a misunderstanding..so confusing
bizarre to learn some men are sensitive to being wanted via this action
of the phone
I dunno..he's not American..but I thought ALL men are pretty much alike
in male culture
he did warn me that he was not a "typical guy"
really beautiful person in and out. All is going amazingly well
I feel very connected to him...super atttracted to him
he's a scientist and cerebral.... but so funny...and adorable
my date with him was a dream...in every way..took care of everything ..
I felt adored and spoiled
his kiss was explosive and he was the one wh insisted it was
OUR FIRS DATE and he was going home and respcted that and me. texted me on the way home... all of it wonderful
Making some great plans~
Last week we have a late night conversation about Spring break...he's a professor,and he was talkng about finishing finals and doing one makeup but glad to relax and have time ot see me...we decide on movies..and he cracks me up because he says it will have to be a boring movie as he will pay no attention to an interesting movie. meaning his attention will be on me
we leave it with he will call me
5 days go by and I'm puzzled and hurt..
A friend I trust reassures me if it were her and since it does not seem casual.... she'd be straightforward and just call and say's hey...what;s up
So I did..after praying on it. He said...he was hoping I would have called him ...that
so far he's calling and he likes to call.. but he wanted the phone to ring..from me
and to know I had missed him
He was upset! He said he figured on the weekend I had plans ..which I did
then I reminded him of our last conversation and he just reiiterated..it would have
been nice to hear FROM ME
I could tell he was honest ..he disclosed EVERYTHING he did over the last few days...so that I could see he was waiting to hear from me..we came to a lovely understanding ...
he confirmed if he was not into being together...he would never just
disappear...he would tell me
and going forward I can trust that...I promised the same
I don't think he is comfortable with me multi-dating as cool as he tries to be about it
He asked to get together tommorow and I changed the subject because I was startled
to get together right away..and I am going to Maundy Thursday service and soooo wanted as he is a believer to worship together but dint dare ask
but..finally revealed my schedule for the week..which did not include other dates
(after he said you are changing the subject)
he seemed more upbeat after that. "Are you glad to know what I'm doing?"
and he laughed YES!{ cas not dating anyone else this week
he said "So...to be clear I am CALLING YOU"..lol ..and before I could say when
he said TONIGHT
UPSHOT
he's going to church with me Thursday..when I mentioned it he said he secretly wanted to go with me but did not want to impose...I thought why not ask him
he is SUCH a sweetheart and so sexy
and then Saturday we are going to the movies
he knows I like classics and was going to research
but!
what a misunderstanding..so confusing
bizarre to learn some men are sensitive to being wanted via this action
of the phone
I dunno..he's not American..but I thought ALL men are pretty much alike
in male culture
he did warn me that he was not a "typical guy"
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