yokoyokogirl
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Ok here's the deal, my girlfriend has a "perfect guy"--he seems kind, takes care of her and is very faithful. She has never complained about him once.
But he doesn't like to go out in groups (even with just one other person) with her friends. It's always just the two of them. Doesn't matter the event or time of day--BBQs, lunches, drinking parties, sporting events--He always says "no thanks, but you can go". He's never met any of her friends, unless they were out and ran into them.
He says he doesn't feel comfortable meeting new people and actually every time they talk about it, he gets defensive. BUT the two of them always go out together, he takes her on trips, and she went to his best friend's wedding with him. (So I doubt he's ashamed of her) I think he's extremely anti-social, but maybe just comfortable with her? And he's an only child too.
Yesterday she said, if we get married, will he go to the baby showers or family reunions? (But he said family is different) I'm not really sure what else to think of thiserplexed
But he doesn't like to go out in groups (even with just one other person) with her friends. It's always just the two of them. Doesn't matter the event or time of day--BBQs, lunches, drinking parties, sporting events--He always says "no thanks, but you can go". He's never met any of her friends, unless they were out and ran into them.
He says he doesn't feel comfortable meeting new people and actually every time they talk about it, he gets defensive. BUT the two of them always go out together, he takes her on trips, and she went to his best friend's wedding with him. (So I doubt he's ashamed of her) I think he's extremely anti-social, but maybe just comfortable with her? And he's an only child too.
Yesterday she said, if we get married, will he go to the baby showers or family reunions? (But he said family is different) I'm not really sure what else to think of thiserplexed