He doesnt know where we stand...

[lux10023]

exactly--because quite frankly

You know where you stand--men dont control the flow of the situation we do and when we take back that control we are in much better place!

I would've said nothing but thought I know where i stand and its not with you!

and KIM..always always date more than one guy--even when you are falling hard for a guy still keep all options open until he clearly--and i mean clear lets you know his intentions for you the relationship and your future....

If he doesn't have time to think about it then you don't have to time to be about it.

His interest (or lack thereof) seems pretty clear.