LivingDol1
Well-Known Member
My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 5 months and we were acquaintances prior to that for 2 years. So, I knew since the beginning that he hoped to eventually move back to his hometown across the country and be closer to his family.
He took me out to dinner this past weekend and he asked me (and he prefaced this saying it might be too soon to ask) about a hypothetical situation... If, in a year from now, his job relocated him to his hometown, would I also consider moving with him and looking for a job, etc.
I was really casual with my answer, saying that I'd be open to the possibility of moving. I also asked him if he would do the same if I needed to be closer to my family and he said of course.
The thing that's bugged me ever since is that I never said that I'd need to be engaged or married prior to moving. I don't want to bring it up again but I also don't want him thinking that he could get me to move without a major commitment. Me moving is a bigger deal than him because he could do his job anywhere. We also agree that we don't want to live together prior to marriage.
Should I forget about it for now? Or bring it up the next time he mentions his hometown? I'm overthinking!!! Driving me bonkers.
He took me out to dinner this past weekend and he asked me (and he prefaced this saying it might be too soon to ask) about a hypothetical situation... If, in a year from now, his job relocated him to his hometown, would I also consider moving with him and looking for a job, etc.
I was really casual with my answer, saying that I'd be open to the possibility of moving. I also asked him if he would do the same if I needed to be closer to my family and he said of course.
The thing that's bugged me ever since is that I never said that I'd need to be engaged or married prior to moving. I don't want to bring it up again but I also don't want him thinking that he could get me to move without a major commitment. Me moving is a bigger deal than him because he could do his job anywhere. We also agree that we don't want to live together prior to marriage.
Should I forget about it for now? Or bring it up the next time he mentions his hometown? I'm overthinking!!! Driving me bonkers.