WOW, I am happy for you. Seems like you had a great time.Okay, ladies, here is the rundown. I'm lazy, so ya'll are getting bullet points.
Thanks for your support and encouragement!
- We went to a wine bar which was interesting, but it was full of 20 somethings. As they got more drunk, we clowned them.
- Within 20 minutes he says he's too old for me (nicely, of course) but he just really liked me.
- He talks A LOT. Wow. Not a bad thing, but he talked for an extra 15 minutes after walking me to the car and I was so sleepy. lol
- He's very lighthearted and comes across as being younger than he is without seeming immature.
- He's dated multiple black women. But he almost grew up being one of the few white kids in and all black area school, so that makes sense.
- He has no biological children, but his stepson (late teens) lives with him. The mom lives on Maui.
- Creepy coincidences - we were born in the same hospital! We were both raised in the DC area. He purchased his first house 20 minutes away from where I grew up.
- I shocked both of us when I said I wanted to get together again. We're driving to the North Shore.
- Is it normal for old guys to feel kind of grateful to be hanging out with a younger woman? The man seemed grateful for everything I did. I swear this man looked like he won the damn lottery after I hugged him.
WOW, I am happy for you. Seems like you had a great time. How do you feel about HIM? How does he make you feel when you are around him? I am also glad to see you took the initiative to see him again. What are you guys birthdays if you don't mind me asking?
He's very likeable. I look forward to seeing him again.Wow, I love your description of this man. He seems like a winner so far!
Okay, ladies, here is the rundown. I'm lazy, so ya'll are getting bullet points.
Thanks for your support and encouragement!
- We went to a wine bar which was interesting, but it was full of 20 somethings. As they got more drunk, we clowned them.
- Within 20 minutes he says he's too old for me (nicely, of course) but he just really liked me.
- He talks A LOT. Wow. Not a bad thing, but he talked for an extra 15 minutes after walking me to the car and I was so sleepy. lol
- He's very lighthearted and comes across as being younger than he is without seeming immature.
- He's dated multiple black women. But he almost grew up being one of the few white kids in and all black area school, so that makes sense.
- He has no biological children, but his stepson (late teens) lives with him. The mom lives on Maui.
- Creepy coincidences - we were born in the same hospital! We were both raised in the DC area. He purchased his first house 20 minutes away from where I grew up.
- I shocked both of us when I said I wanted to get together again. We're driving to the North Shore.
- Is it normal for old guys to feel kind of grateful to be hanging out with a younger woman? The man seemed grateful for everything I did. I swear this man looked like he won the damn lottery after I hugged him.
Well, I actually suffer from pretty severe depression. But I honestly don't think having a lot of material goods would help that. I need to surround myself with good people who actually care about me as an individual. I think that trying to use somebody in any way, shape, or form will end up negatively.Aww, this is fun! I love that you love your life, and aren't looking for a traditional "come up" even though he fits the provider bill. Everything doesn't mean the same thing to everyone.
Well, I actually suffer from pretty severe depression. But I honestly don't think having a lot of material goods would help that. I need to surround myself with good people who actually care about me as an individual. I think that trying to use somebody in any way, shape, or form will end up negatively.
Soon you will be saying " my old man" lol!This old man makes me laugh. Due to his age and schedule, he rarely texts me. But when I contact him, he always says hello and proposes a date.He wanted to get together this weekend, but he has a golf thing and I'm mentoring. We'll see.
Ya'll, I've met him like 3 times. Getting ahead of yourself much?This makes me smile. So excited to read about your wedding in the future![]()
yeah ok!!! i wonder what the tag will be? need to think of baby names tooYa'll, I've met him like 3 times. Getting ahead of yourself much?![]()
I'm not sold on kids and he's too damn old to be someone's daddy. He'll be in a wheelchair just to attend his children's high school graduation!yeah ok!!! i wonder what the tag will be? need to think of baby names too![]()
Ya'll, I've met him like 3 times. Getting ahead of yourself much?![]()
I'm not sold on kids and he's too damn old to be someone's daddy. He'll be in a wheelchair just to attend his children's high school graduation!
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African first name (like me), Hawaiian middle name, his Greek last name.![]()
Yeah, I am. But it's fun to be girly and talk about baby names. I say 50% of the reason I write is that I like naming people.Enjoy yourself. And just see how things go.