This is my first thread and I REALLY need some advice! I met this guy about two years ago through mutual friends, and we casually dated for about a year and a half. We live in different states (about 4 hours away) and after awhile things just kinda fell off, but we still talk regularly.
I realized pretty early on that we just were not compatible in the "romantic" sense but I still caught feelings for him. I honestly know that a relationship would never work out between us for many different reasons and I know it would be dumb to pursue one because I would just end up hurt. I feel like the only way I can really get past these feelings I have for him is to totally cut him off, and that's where I'm having the problem. He hasn't actually done anything wrong per se, and he has really become like a good friend to me( a friend that I'm falling in love with erplexed).
So my question is have any of you ever just walked away from someone you were in love with, just because you knew it wasn't going to work? If so how did you do it?
I realized pretty early on that we just were not compatible in the "romantic" sense but I still caught feelings for him. I honestly know that a relationship would never work out between us for many different reasons and I know it would be dumb to pursue one because I would just end up hurt. I feel like the only way I can really get past these feelings I have for him is to totally cut him off, and that's where I'm having the problem. He hasn't actually done anything wrong per se, and he has really become like a good friend to me( a friend that I'm falling in love with erplexed).
So my question is have any of you ever just walked away from someone you were in love with, just because you knew it wasn't going to work? If so how did you do it?
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