Thanks for the update....and you can't be serious.
No one here forced you to post a thread announcing your divorce. If you couldn't speak about it why post at all?..or all you had to say was "I can't speak about it now...but yes it's true...please send me your good thoughts and I will be back when I can".. Simple.
Instead you post, watch the thread disintegrate, and then come back in weeks later to chastise people for wishing you ill (probably because they don't have a man like you had)....which I don't see here. I see people wondering why you would post something that is especially explosive given your history on the board and disappear. You seem to like drama. Honestly your behavior is absolutely ridiculous.
All of that said I truly wish you well. Divorce is painful and I wish only the best for you in your life.