Re: Hair Wars * adding bleach to a friend\'s hair stuf
Jealously makes folx do all sorts of things. My oldest sister had really long hair when she was young. My mom said she came home one day and when she took her hair down to comb her hair, long strands of it came out. Someone had actually cut hair out from her braids. She thought an adult had done it because a jealous child her age wouldnt have been that aware to go deep within the braid and make it seem untouched. Growing up she always warned us not to let our friends or their parents play in our hair or anything, and I didnt, but in the back of my mind I also always thought she was over reacting.
From the actions described, this person seems like one of those people who have to be the "Queen Bee". They can't stand for anyone else to have or get attention no matter how much they have going for them. It's gone past mere jealousy tho anytime someone would do something this malicious. This is precisely why I no longer keep hair products in the bathroom...especially relaxers that can be added to any of my other products. All of mine are in my bedroom where no one has access to. I pay careful attention to the smell and consistency of my products. Many times if something is added to it it will have a smell or a change in color, texture or something. Not always though.
My brother has a girlfriend who positively
hates me. In fact she's psycho and doesnt like anyone in my family. She has a real jealous nature and is always making comments about other women, which is always a major tip off to character anyway. You have to stay away from those folx because tho they call you friend if they will do something evil or have spiteful attitudes toward someone else, it's just a matter of time to where you are on the receiving end.
Anyway, I dont have long hair but I always get compliments on the sheen and the texture. At the time they had been dating for a year ot two and suddenly out of the blue she started telling my how pretty my hair was and staring at me strangely or staring off strangely after she did it. About that time I noticed a change in the texture of my hair, it was rougher and more brittle. I cant prove she did anything but I highly suspect it. I'm normally not paranoid so I know it wasnt my imagination. I threw out the stuff I had in the bathroom and washed my hair with neturalizing shampoo and did some conditioning treatments. My strands were a little thinner for a while but I didnt lose any major hair, thank God, tho I did do a big trim to get my ends looking good again. Be careful ladies. Don't keep your products where folx have access to them. Folx who are jealous or insecure in nature don't think rationally and when you are in relationship with someone sometimes you don't see, or don't
want to see, their true character. ...sorry this is so long...I just get carried away...
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