adalexandria
Active Member
I have been a LHCF lurker for about a year now, but I only very recently (today) decided to join. Up until two weeks ago, I had a pretty healthy hair regime that kept my relaxed hair feeling and looking healthy. I CO wash weekly, followed by a deep conditioner and leave in conditioner. I usually let my hair airdry til almost totally dry, then blowout. Every few weeks I do a protein treatment and about every six weeks I do a clarifying poo to rid my hair of all impurities. I also have been relaxing my own hair for the past few years. I usually relax my hair once every 4-6 months, but I decided a couple weeks ago to do it a bit sooner than usual.
So, two weeks ago, I decided to do a little touch up on the new growth (I was about three months post relaxer). Everything about the process was normal and fine until I shampooed with the neutralizer. Suddenly all this hair came out! I was horrified to say the least, but rinsed/neutralized with additional poo several more times (as I always do post-relaxer to make sure the relaxer is completely out). The same thing happened - the hair wouldn't stop falling out! I followed up with Nexxus Emergencee which made my hair feel extremely hard, so I followed that with a DC. My hair was still hard after I rinsed everything out and the hair kept falling out. I didn't understand what was making this process different then any other relaxing process (I typically use Creme of Nature, but had switched to ORS no lye regular with no problems). So I looked over the relaxer ingredients and i realized to my horror that I had accidentally used ORS no lye extra strength relaxer instead of the normal one I always use!
For the past two weeks, my hair has been shedding/falling out more then it has ever done in my life and I just don't know what to do. I do know it's shedding and not breaking because I see the white bulb at the root. The hair at my roots feels crunchy/spongy, while the rest feels the same (obviously, because it wasn't relaxed). The hair at the roots also feels like a different texture - it's almost a bit curly and tangled. I don't know what I can do to help this situation and it's heartbreaking for me because I tried to be positively diligent with my hair. I have been scouring the forum archives for advice and decided to post my (first ever) post today for help. So ANY advice would be much appreciated. I want to cry every time I comb my hair. It seems as though the shedding won't stop.
So, two weeks ago, I decided to do a little touch up on the new growth (I was about three months post relaxer). Everything about the process was normal and fine until I shampooed with the neutralizer. Suddenly all this hair came out! I was horrified to say the least, but rinsed/neutralized with additional poo several more times (as I always do post-relaxer to make sure the relaxer is completely out). The same thing happened - the hair wouldn't stop falling out! I followed up with Nexxus Emergencee which made my hair feel extremely hard, so I followed that with a DC. My hair was still hard after I rinsed everything out and the hair kept falling out. I didn't understand what was making this process different then any other relaxing process (I typically use Creme of Nature, but had switched to ORS no lye regular with no problems). So I looked over the relaxer ingredients and i realized to my horror that I had accidentally used ORS no lye extra strength relaxer instead of the normal one I always use!
For the past two weeks, my hair has been shedding/falling out more then it has ever done in my life and I just don't know what to do. I do know it's shedding and not breaking because I see the white bulb at the root. The hair at my roots feels crunchy/spongy, while the rest feels the same (obviously, because it wasn't relaxed). The hair at the roots also feels like a different texture - it's almost a bit curly and tangled. I don't know what I can do to help this situation and it's heartbreaking for me because I tried to be positively diligent with my hair. I have been scouring the forum archives for advice and decided to post my (first ever) post today for help. So ANY advice would be much appreciated. I want to cry every time I comb my hair. It seems as though the shedding won't stop.