Healthy hair can be achieved without LHCF.... Just good old fashioned care.... eating right - doing right.....
she inspires me!
We all know on here that one person's regimen may not work for another. I know we are on LHCF so of course we are going to notice and pay particular attention to hair techniques, hair health, hair length and hair products, but dang...can't we sometimes just admire someone's hair?
Based on the responses she is:
-Not gonna make it on youtube (who said that is what she is trying to do)
-She has heat damage
-Her regimen is wrong and won't work for most
-Her hair is uneven
-She has been doing this for 10 years and is only at BSL - she must not be growing hair
-Her hair is that length, not because of her regimen or techniques, but because she was born with that "good/special" hair.
I could go on an on. Some of the responses seem like backhanded compliments to me.
(I am paraphrasing)
"Gosh her hair is beautiful, but she has heat damage."
??????
i mean, i get that, i really do.I don't see what the big deal is. This is a hair care forum, of course we're going to critique questionable hair practices . But obviously what she is doing works for her, beautiful hair.
We all know on here that one person's regimen may not work for another. I know we are on LHCF so of course we are going to notice and pay particular attention to hair techniques, hair health, hair length and hair products, but dang...can't we sometimes just admire someone's hair?
Based on the responses she is:
-Not gonna make it on youtube (who said that is what she is trying to do)
-She has heat damage
-Her regimen is wrong and won't work for most
-Her hair is uneven
-She has been doing this for 10 years and is only at BSL - she must not be growing hair
-Her hair is that length, not because of her regimen or techniques, but because she was born with that "good/special" hair.
I could go on an on. Some of the responses seem like backhanded compliments to me.
(I am paraphrasing)
"Gosh her hair is beautiful, but she has heat damage."
??????
No, don't lie. I am all for the truth and keeping it real. I don't want anyone to censor themselves, because I sure don't.
LHCF will do what LHCF wants to do and say. And that is one of the great things about it. I just wonder if sometimes we are hyper-critical.
Gorgeous!
I agree with most comments...but still didn't have a problem with most of her "bad practices" until I saw the cotton bandana. My hair immediately rebels if I even think about sleeping on cotton!
Well what I wanna know is why is it okay to openly criticize the typef naturals to the point of chasing them off of youtube? Though misguided, some of them (JoAnn and yellow weave girl excluded) were making an honest attempt to share their (bad) hair practices.
But with videos like this, though well done, still perpetuate unhealthy hair practices. In her case, we must make an exception for some reason. Is it because she comes in a prettier package? Speaks eloquently?
I just don't get it......
Since one of my statements was directly quoted in your "round up" I will say this... I don't give back handed compliments. I said what I had to say. Point blank period.
Your concern is about being hypercritical, and yet I think it's always interesting when people who are being both respectful and honest are called out with a bullet list like the one in your response. Ironically, I find that hyper critical.
I see this beautiful woman is BSL/MBL range after ten years (despite potentially having a quick growth rate) so I figured "hey maybe she's satisfied with her hair and in maintenance mode"
Aaaand?!
That's not catty or backhanded. It's a basic, logical assessment based on her own regimen and explanation of her monthly practices.
I'm confused about the whole intent of your response. It felt more like a reprimand than an inquiry. Is critical thinking not allowed on LHCF anymore?
What am I missing here?
Well what I wanna know is why is it okay to openly criticize the typef naturals to the point of chasing them off of youtube? Though misguided, some of them (JoAnn and yellow weave girl excluded) were making an honest attempt to share their (bad) hair practices.
But with videos like this, though well done, still perpetuate unhealthy hair practices. In her case, we must make an exception for some reason. Is it because she comes in a prettier package? Speaks eloquently?
I just don't get it......
Ok.blank.period.
P.S. Definition of backhanded compliment:
In each instance, there is an initial compliment: praising a piece of clothing, a person's intellect, a person's driving ability, or a person's looks. However, each instance also includes an implied criticism: the person's figure desperately needs improvement; the person appears unintelligent on the surface; women don't drive well, and therefore any skill at driving is noteworthy; the son's parents are unattractive.
Source: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Backhanded_compliment
*insert insincere diatribe about agreeing to disagree*
JoAnn spoke eloquently...
If you do not want to straighten your hair like SistaWithRealHair, you can always use the blue rollers without heat as pictured below....
This washing video almost kilt me dead --> http://youtu.be/VrqLivZrgN0
It minuswell have been called "How to Grow Dreads While Shampooing"
She has really pretty hair, but it would bug the crap out of me to have one side of my hair bsl and the other side near wl.
Believe it or not, but I wash my natural 4a/b tightly coiled natural APL hair this way most of the time. It takes less time doing it this way than putting it in sections and washing each section one at a time. It's really not that bad as long as you get a really good lather and thoroughly rinse your hair underneath the showerhead letting the water pressure detangle the hair for you.