StarScream35
Well-Known Member
I was reading an article last night about gender racism. Mind you I had never heard the term so of course it sparked my interest. Basically it was about gender racism in online dating. The article states that black women are often excluded in online dating preferences and though some argue that they are just preferences, the article delved into the fact that it could be very well be rooted in racism. There were lots of comments mainly from whites who found the article to be quite offensive and argured heavily that a preference is a preference and nobody should be called a racist for it. I certainly agree but the more I thought about it, the more I had to question it. I mean think of the mental process a person is going through as they check off every single race they would date and get to black and skip over it. What are they thinking? Are they concocting negative images of black women? Simultaneously one white guy argued that the preference that white guys and Asian ladies have for each other is steeped in racism. I personlly am not attracted to certain races but I would never exclude them because shoot, for all I know Mr. Right could come from that race. The article went on to say that often black men exclude black women as well.