For the non married women. Do you ever fantasize

Je Ne Sais Quoi

Je Ne Sais Quoi

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About how your wedding will be? I think about it alot and just imagine it will be like a fairytale :lol: How do you imagine your to end up? Have you already started planning it even though you aren't involved at the moment? :)
 
I used to.

I had a dress picked out, the guest list, the whole 9, LOL. I never in my life thought I'd still be single with no kids at 29. Never.

But know, I don't really think about it much at all. While I would still like to get married, I have to say it doesn't have the same appeal to me as it did I was younger. While I never really had examples of healthy, productive marriages around me bacl, I still strongly believed in it. Now, it just seems like a such a joke to so many people.

I think I want to have kids more than I want to get married. But I want to be married when I have kids. Go figure, LOL.
 
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I don't fantasize so much as I "take notes" on what I see when I go to friends' weddings and weddings I see on television . . . I want my wedding to be a classy, inclusive day . . . .
 
Yeah I fantasize about city hall as opposed to the $30,000 my father spent on my last marriage :eek: (I'm divorced now :look: )
 
ncarter72 said:
Yeah I fantasize about city hall as opposed to the $30,000 my father spent on my last marriage :eek: (I'm divorced now :look: )
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Woah nelly. I think about that too. Of course I'd love to have a big wedding, but a sistah would love the downpayment on a home a whole lot more!
 
Heck yeah!

But I fantasize about everything, so fantasizing about weddings is just par for the course for me. :)

I got some locations picked out in my head and some dresses... and my bridesmaids... once I get a groom, I'm good to go! :lachen:

It doesn't help that my mom has great design/planning skills (almost pursued a career in that field) and she already wants to handle EVERYTHING! Go for it mom... save me some time and stress, seriously!

For some reason, I always saw myself getting married at 32 though... so I'm still on schedule. :lol:
 
I used to visualize how my wedding would be. Now, I have mixed feelings about marriage and don't do it much, anymore.
 
*Bre~Bre* said:
As you should! :) Are you imagining it right now? :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
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Yep!!!:lol:

And my future husband is going to luv me sooooo much. I luv him...:kiss2: Yes, I know I'm not dating and I don't have any prospects as of now....but I luv him okay and there's nothing anyone can do about it, because it's my fantasy?!:lachen: :drunk:
 
klb120475 said:
Yep!!!:lol:

And my future husband is going to luv me sooooo much. I luv him...:kiss2: Yes, I know I'm not dating and I don't have any prospects as of now....but I luv him okay and there's nothing anyone can do about it, because it's my fantasy?!:lachen: :drunk:
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LOL. Too cute.

Gon' and have your fantasy, girl!!!
 
klb120475 said:
Yep!!!:lol:

And my future husband is going to luv me sooooo much. I luv him...:kiss2: Yes, I know I'm not dating and I don't have any prospects as of now....but I luv him okay and there's nothing anyone can do about it, because it's my fantasy?!:lachen: :drunk:
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LOL I love it!!!!
 
Mestiza said:
I used to visualize how my wedding would be. Now, I have mixed feelings about marriage and don't do it much, anymore.
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Not to be nosy but do you care to elaborate? What has swayed you?
 
Yep, all the time...i have everything planned out just waiting on the man:look: its going to be a destination wedding (Hawaii)
 
*Bre~Bre* said:
Woah nelly. I think about that too. Of course I'd love to have a big wedding, but a sistah would love the downpayment on a home a whole lot more!
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Yeah, I don't know if I'm speaking because of my failed marriage but it lasted one night, and I have a whole bunch of pretty pictures that no one wants to look at now. I still yell at my father to take down my wedding picture in his living room:lol: .

Anyway, it just seems that the money sure could have gone towards the house that I nearly lost because I couldn't maintain the mortgage on my own.

Next time, because I definitely would like there to be a next time, I would do things differently. Like seriously getting married in city hall with two witnesses and using whatever money I have saved for children for their education, a new home, retirement, anything other than a night of everyone pissy drunk (husband especially :mad: ) (I'm not angry)

If I were still married to the man, would I have regretted the money spent? Probably not, my father enjoyed giving away his little girl.
 
I used to all the time. I would even lurk on the ChocolateBrides website frequently to get ideas from the brides on there. A Wedding Story on TLC used to be my show! I don't fanatasize about my big day nearly as much these days, hardly ever really. Don't see the point when I can't even get a boyfriend. :ohwell:
 
ncarter72 said:
Yeah, I don't know if I'm speaking because of my failed marriage but it lasted one night, and I have a whole bunch of pretty pictures that no one wants to look at now. I still yell at my father to take down my wedding picture in his living room:lol: .

Anyway, it just seems that the money sure could have gone towards the house that I nearly lost because I couldn't maintain the mortgage on my own.

Next time, because I definitely would like there to be a next time, I would do things differently. Like seriously getting married in city hall with two witnesses and using whatever money I have saved for children for their education, a new home, retirement, anything other than a night of everyone pissy drunk (husband especially :mad: ) (I'm not angry)

If I were still married to the man, would I have regretted the money spent? Probably not, my father enjoyed giving away his little girl.
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Awww *sniff*. That is super sweet :)
 
klb120475 said:
Why is that?
Mestiza said:
I used to visualize how my wedding would be. Now, I have mixed feelings about marriage and don't do it much, anymore.
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*Bre~Bre* said:
Not to be nosy but do you care to elaborate? What has swayed you?
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There are so many people who thought that they were in great marriages and found out that it was the complete opposite. There are a lot of married couples who seem to be miserable. I'm not completely ruling marriage out b/c there are a few of them that seem to be great ones. The unhappily married couples far outweigh the happily married ones that I've seen.
 
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SeatownSista said:
I used to all the time. I would even lurk on the ChocolateBrides website frequently to get ideas from the brides on there. A Wedding Story on TLC used to be my show! I don't fanatasize about my big day nearly as much these days, hardly ever really. Don't see the point when I can't even get a boyfriend. :ohwell:
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You are such a pretty girl. The men in your area are obviously idiots :lol:
 
SeatownSista said:
I used to all the time. I would even lurk on the ChocolateBrides website frequently to get ideas from the brides on there. A Wedding Story on TLC used to be my show! I don't fanatasize about my big day nearly as much these days, hardly ever really. Don't see the point when I can't even get a boyfriend. :ohwell:
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Ugh, A Wedding Story and A Baby Story depress the hell outta me. I had to stop watching, LOL.
 
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