LoveHairGirl
New Member
Hello Ladies, this question has been burning me for a while and since I subscribe to the forum I figured I should ask other women out there how they feel about this situation. Should a woman pay more bills since she brings in more income her man?
Just a little history here:
We do not have any kids but we are engaged and live together. He insists on us splitting everything down the middle when it comes to costs/bills but somehow that never seems fair to me. If I ask him to pick me up something from the store e.g a prescription he requests my debit card but he wont mind picking up a bar or two for himself at the same time. I do not know if it because this goes against my upbringing where my father handles it all and when things get tough and/or there is a major expense my mom pitches in. However, I do not want to seem "entitled".
I dont know ya'll this may be a deeper issue than the question I asked, just give me your raw thoughts please.
Thanks in advance
Just a little history here:
We do not have any kids but we are engaged and live together. He insists on us splitting everything down the middle when it comes to costs/bills but somehow that never seems fair to me. If I ask him to pick me up something from the store e.g a prescription he requests my debit card but he wont mind picking up a bar or two for himself at the same time. I do not know if it because this goes against my upbringing where my father handles it all and when things get tough and/or there is a major expense my mom pitches in. However, I do not want to seem "entitled".
I dont know ya'll this may be a deeper issue than the question I asked, just give me your raw thoughts please.
Thanks in advance