Favorite Break Up Songs?

[caribeandiva]

Take a bow by Rihanna.

Best one i've heard so far.

 

[Spongie Bloom]

whitney houston heart break hotel

anastacia one day in your life
sick and tired

Boys II Men Just Hold On

Boys II Men Never

Dru Hill Give me one good reason

September You'll never see me again

Bob Marley Dont worry (bout a thing) it just puts me in a good mood

Az Yet Time to end the story

Uncle Sam I dont ever want to see you again

Toni Braxton Another sad love song

Tina Turner Im not missing you at all

Gabrielle Rise

Mya If you died i wouldnt cry.

on break ups id rather listen to this^^ (empowering) than songs like 'TLC I miss u' cause those have me bawling like a baby and that is the last thing i need

 

[klb120475]

Pretty much all of Back to Black by Amy Winehouse (That CD has gotten me through many a crappy night.)

No More Drama- Mary J. Blige

Not Gon Cry- Mary J. Blige

I Hate You So Much Right Now- Kelis

Through With Love - Destiny's Child
Ain't It Funny (Murder Remix) - Jennifer Lopez ft. Ja Rule

No More Drama - Mary J. Blige

What Goes Around... - Justin Timberlake (I heart him)
I'll see if I can come up with any more. :scratchch

Erykah Badu - Call Tyrone

I luv all these songs.

 

[itismehmmkay]

Adding:

Sara Bareilles - (I'm not Gonna Write You A) Love Song

 

[ChoxlatChix]

Wow...we all been here huh. Well I have quite a few faves but I'll only list some. Mine are like a mixture of sappy sad hearted songs and f-u you I'm ova it songs

Boys II Men-Doing Just Fine
Lady Saw-Man A Least (hella confidence booster lol)
Tanya Stephens- Can't Breathe (This is my power tune right here she put it out there like whateva)
Toni Braxton-He Wasn't Man Enough, Hit The Freeway
Neyo-So Sick
Dru Hill- All Alone
Lauren Hill/Mary J-I used To Love Him
Faith- You Used To Love Me
Jagged Edge (oh so many but a few here)- Goodbye, Girl It's Over, Keys To The Range, Shady Girl
Erykah Badu-Call Tyrone
Trey Songz- Can't Help But Wait (my anthem for 08 makes me so happy)
Brian Mcknight- After The Love is Gone
Tony Thompson-Goodbye Eyes
Justin Timberlake-Cry Me A River
Fantasia-Free Yourself

But yeah I rattled on enough. Ladies I am telling you peep that Tanya Stephens if you haven't.

 

[Theo]

I'm Through With It (Love)- Destiny's Child
Be OK- Chrisette Michele
Irreplaceable- Beyonce
Me, Myself, and I- Beyonce
Like A Boy- Ciara
Survivor- Destiny's Child
This Way- Dilated Peoples (I don't know... it just works for me lol)
Headed in th Right Direction- India.Arie
Son of A Gun- Janet Jackson
If I Never See Your Face Again- Maroon 5
Ain't Thinking About You- Ne-Yo
Let It Go- Keyshia Cole

** from my "*** that (BLEEP)in' N*%$#!!! playlist

 

[bluerose17]

Total- "I Don't Wanna"

Amanda Perez- "Angel"

Cheri Dennis- "Dropping Out of my Love"

Rihanna- "The Last Time"

Ciara- "I Found Myself" "My Love"

Kelly Rowland- "Better Without You"

Brandy- "Tomorrow"

Whitney Houston, Kelly Price- "Heartbreak Hotel"

Cherish- "LoveSick"

Keyshia Cole- "I Changed My Mind"

 

[CurlyMoo]

Is it a Crime ~ Sade

 

[Belle Du Jour]

"The Trouble with Love is. . ." Kelly Clarkson

"Keep Breathing" Ingrid Michaelson

"The Beautiful Ones" Mariah/Dru Hill

 

[silverlotus]

Wow...we all been here huh. Well I have quite a few faves but I'll only list some. Mine are like a mixture of sappy sad hearted songs and f-u you I'm ova it songs

Boys II Men-Doing Just Fine
Lady Saw-Man A Least (hella confidence booster lol)
Tanya Stephens- Can't Breathe (This is my power tune right here she put it out there like whateva)
Toni Braxton-He Wasn't Man Enough, Hit The Freeway
Neyo-So Sick
Dru Hill- All Alone
Lauren Hill/Mary J-I used To Love Him
Faith- You Used To Love Me
Jagged Edge (oh so many but a few here)- Goodbye, Girl It's Over, Keys To The Range, Shady Girl
Erykah Badu-Call Tyrone
Trey Songz- Can't Help But Wait (my anthem for 08 makes me so happy)
Brian Mcknight- After The Love is Gone
Tony Thompson-Goodbye Eyes
Justin Timberlake-Cry Me A River
Fantasia-Free Yourself

But yeah I rattled on enough. Ladies I am telling you peep that Tanya Stephens if you haven't.

I love her songs, she is hilarious! Ironically enough it was an ex that put me onto her music.

 

[Butterfly08]

Take a bow by Rihanna.

Best one i've heard so far.

I'm Through With It (Love)- Destiny's Child
Be OK- Chrisette Michele
Irreplaceable- Beyonce
Me, Myself, and I- Beyonce
Like A Boy- Ciara
Survivor- Destiny's Child
This Way- Dilated Peoples (I don't know... it just works for me lol)
Headed in th Right Direction- India.Arie
Son of A Gun- Janet Jackson
If I Never See Your Face Again- Maroon 5
Ain't Thinking About You- Ne-Yo
Let It Go- Keyshia Cole

** from my "*** that (BLEEP)in' N*%$#!!! playlist

LOL, Be Ok is nice.

I also like This Too Shall Pass, India Arie.

 

[ChoxlatChix]

I love her songs, she is hilarious! Ironically enough it was an ex that put me onto her music.

Gurl, is she!!! When she says "I hope she's cheating juggling nuts like a squirrel, Betta yet I hope she leaves you for a gurl" I almost died. The first time I heard that joint I had just broken up with my fiance who happened to be Jamaican that thang was too too funny to me. I started to call and play that joint on his voicemail . She be truthful though and like forget all that nice crap.

 

[maddywoo13]

Miss You by the Rolling Stones
Better Do Better - Hard Fi
You Don't Love Me - The Kooks

 

[BrooklynBeauty]

my faves are...
justin timberlake-what goes around comes around
beyonce-me,myself and i
ne-yo:go on girl
Aaliyah-i refuse
donell jones-where i wanna be

 

[NYCQT16]

Keyshia Cole: Didn't I Tell You
Avril Lavigne: My Happy Ending
Three Doors Down: Let Me Go
Mary J. Blige: I Love You
Mariah Carey: Breakdown, Crybaby
Ashanti: The Way That I Love You, Don't Leave Me Alone
Destiny's Child: Through With Love
Fiona Apple: Get Gone
Ciara: My Love (I think thas what it is called)


I have so many more which is sad...LOL...I've been able to build my collection over the years, but these are all I can think about

 

[Ms.Nigeria]

"Moving mountain" usher

 

[HeChangedMyName]

Almost all of Keisha Cole's first album. It got me through a break up.

 

[tadeja]

Free Yourself - Fantasia
If don't want me then don't talk to me, go ahead and free yourself

Something I Wanna Give You - Sunshine Anderson
I know it may be hard for you to understand but nowadays I don't really think of you as my man

Free - Jaguar Wright
You act like you want to be free, I could go and let you be free

Let It Go - Hi Tek ft Dion and Talib Kweli
I came home late, you were not there, I didn't care, I think we both it's over we need to let it go

I'm a Mess - Anthony Hamilton
Instead of leaving no explanation as to why, You don't want me no more
Call me write me love me come home

Guess What - Syleena Johnson
Don't want to pay the bills (guess what), I know somebody who will (sho nuff)

 

[dream13]

New Sh!t - Tierra Mari
Ain't No Way - Aretha Franklin
She's (He's) Out of My Life - Micheal Jackson
Where I Wanna Be - Donnell Jones
Leaving Tonight - Neyo/J. Hud​

 

[sky_blu]

Fighter- Xtina
Lesson Learned- Alicia Keys
Thanks 4 Nothin- Mariah Carey
Heartbreak- Cocoa Sarai
Love Thirst- Jean Grae (to think about the good times )

 

[calm_delight]

Miss You Love - Maria Mena
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U-AG3LYAM3w

Bruised but Not Broken - Joss Stone
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bn2HFwIMS3I

It Hurts Like Hell - Aretha Franklin (Don't listen unless you feel like crying)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dcy3oJesijQ

 

[calm_delight]

Wish I Wasn't (in love with you) - Heather Headley
Not technically a break up song but it kind of fits in:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lATq7-yzSCE

 

[calm_delight]

Ex-Factor - Lauryn Hill

:scratchch

Girl, THAT is the ONE!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xOEImjguLxQ

One of the best ever. Way back when, I listened to this over and over and over. More times than I care to say. All the feelings I had back then are a very distant memory now.

 

[Tinky]

^^^^^ I have to agree ex-factor was awesome.
Almost Doesn't Count- Brandy
Free Yourself- Fantasia
Goodbye - Alicia Keys
Bitter - Chanté Moore
When A Woman's Fed Up- R. Kelly (?- I like it)
Stranger in My House- Tamia
Used To Love U - John Legend
If You Don't Wanna Love Me - Tamar Braxton
My Love - Ciara Ft. Rihanna
Heather Headley - I Wish I Wasn't
too late to apologize- one republic (my favorite)
Gotta Go Gotta Leave - Vivian Green
I Learned From The Best - Whitney Houston

 

[pisceschica]

http://youtube.com/watch?v=qV8DupH0pD4

 

[Keep1Belle]

Mariah Carey - Shake it off
Mary J. Blige - Not goin cry
Destinys Child - Say my name (pathetic i know)
Leona Lewis - Bleeding Love
Lisa Loeb Stay - " I miss you"

My Break up to make up song is:
I was made to love you by Gerlad Levert

The line that gets me
"I remember our first date, our first arguments, our very first break up and make up
that got us to this moment. And every girlfriend, and every one night stand and every heart ache and every heart break. Brought me to you, made be better, better suited for ya" LOL

 

[ellennicole]

Not that I'd do any of the things suggested in the song...

Umm, it's not appropriate. LOL

Nevermind.

 

[sylver2]

wow..whoever suggested 'Cant breathe' by Tanya Stephens was on point.
that is my anthem...lol.

 

[ChoxlatChix]

wow..whoever suggested 'Cant breathe' by Tanya Stephens was on point.
that is my anthem...lol.

Uh huh I see she has some more fans up in here . We up to three

 

[sylver2]

Gurl, is she!!! When she says "I hope she's cheating juggling nuts like a squirrel, Betta yet I hope she leaves you for a gurl" I almost died. The first time I heard that joint I had just broken up with my fiance who happened to be Jamaicanthat thang was too too funny to me. I started to call and play that joint on his voicemail . She be truthful though and like forget all that nice crap.

same here..lol. she gettin me thru