name your favorite break up/heartbreak song!!

Jazmine Sullivan - Holding You Down
Mariah Carey - Crybaby
Mariah Carey - Breakdown
Stevie Nicks - Landslide
Stevie Nicks - Dreams
 
Bust Your Windows- Jasmine Sullivan
F**k you (Don't want you back- Eamon
F**k you right back (^answer song)- Frankee
Free yourself and Bittersweet- Fantasia
Love-Keyshia Cole
Like a boy and Listen-Beyonce
Bang, Bang-Nancy Sinatra
I get lonely-Janet Jackson
I can't stop loving you-Kem
Take a bow-Rhiana
 
"You give love a bad name" Bon Jovi

"Total Eclipse of the Heart" ... forgets who sings it

And ... just recently, not to mention, totally out of character for me

"Where you been" Rasheeda :blush::look: But I commit that this past "relationship," will be the only time I use that song for a breakup
 
There You Go by Pink. I love the chorus:

There u go, lookin' pitiful
Just because I let you go
There u go, talkin' bout you want me back
But sometimes it be's like that, so
There u go, talkin' bout you miss me so
That you love me so
Why I let you go
Yeah you know cause your lies got old
Look at you, there u go
 
He Wasn't Man Enough for Me - Toni Braxton
Looking for a New Love - Jody Watley
Can't Hardly Wait - N'Dambi
Higher than This - Ledisi
It's Too Late - Carole King
Tired - Kelly Price
Gone Already - Faith Evans

Some repeats:
I Used to Love Him - Lauryn Hill
Epiphany - Chrisette Michelle
Be OK - Chrisette Michelle
You Oughta Know - Alanis Morrisette

I try not to wallow too long but focus on moving forward.... if had any sad break-up songs, it would be songs sung by men thinking that's what my ex was going through :yep:
 
Don’t Hurt Now – Teddy Pendergrass
Love Don’t Love Nobody – The Spinners
Maybe – Johnny Gill
Three Little Birds – Bob Marley
 
Toni Braxton - How could an Angel Break my heart. (the album one, not the one with babyface ruining it with all his ad-libs.

Toni Braxton (again)- Why should I care?
 
Pantera - This Love
"I said I loved you but I lied....You keep this love. No more head trips."

Fiona Apple - Carrion
"My feel for you, boy, is decaying right in front of me like the carrion of a murdered prey. And all I want is to save you, honey, or the strength to walk away."

Tweet - Heaven
"Let me tell you what I gained since leaving you. Feels just like heaven and a sunny day...Loving me means more than losing you."

John Mayer - This Will All Make Perfect Sense Someday
"The odds are all this pain will even out in the end and we'll all look back and laugh. To all the hearts I've broken and the ones who once broke mine, I've got suspicions that all will be forgiven in time"

Rihanna - Take A Bow
"You look so dumb right now, standing outside my house, trying to apologize. You look so ugly when you cry. Please just cut it out. Don't tell me your sorry, cuz you're not. I know you're only sorry you got caught."

Amel Larrieux - Sweet Misery
Beyonce - I'd Rather Go Blind
Jackson 5 - Never Can Say Goodbye
Jodeci - If You Think You're Lonely Now (Wait until Tonight)
Faith Evans - Love Don't Live Here Anymore
Billie Holiday - Good Morning Heartache, Solitude
Diana Krall - Cry Me A River
Peggy Lee - Black Coffee
Mariah Carey - Breakdown
Britney Spears - Why Should I Be Sad
Marilyn Monroe - After You Get What You Want You Don't Want It
Fleetwood Mac - Dreams
 
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I'm not a big fan of breakup songs while I'm going through it. Its all just music to cry to at that moment. I can enjoy them when I'm in a better place. All time favorite is Lenny Williams' Because I Love You

That song has the best line of all time... Maybe you've never been in love like I've been in love

I think everyone has been there when your friends tell you to just get over it.
 
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Lauryn Hill-I used to love him, now I don't
Whitney Houston- Its not right but its okay
Toni Braxton- Unbreak my heart
 
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After the Hurricane--Jazmine Sullivan
Dreaming with a Broken Heart--John Mayer
This Time--John Legend
Dueces--Chris Brown
Not Gon' Cry--Mary J. Blige
Apologize--One Republic
Take a Bow-Rihanna
 
The break up song that worked the best for me is Jill Scott - "Slowly Surely". This song literally gave me strength to walk away from a relationship that was so hard to let go of.

"Slowly Surely"
Slowly surely,
I walk away from
that old desperate and dazed love
caught up in the maze of love
the crazy craze of love
thought it was good
thought it was real
thought it was
but it wasn't love

I just don't know
Where i should go
So
Slowly surely
I walk away from
self-serving
undeserving
constantly hurting me love
deserting me love
you said, I said, we said
but

Slowly surely
I walk away from
confusing love
misusing love
abusing love
this can't be
 
Alicia Keys - Go Ahead
Garbage - Special
Hole - Violet
Janet Jackson - What About
Janet Jackson - Son of a Gun (remix f. Missy Elliot)
Kelly Clarkson - Since you've been Gone
Neyo - Go on Girl (I just...switch the gender...)
Destiny's Child - Free
Madonna - Sorry
 
Skin - Sade
Somebody Already Broke My Heart - Sade
No More Drama - Mary J Blige
Sweet Misery - Amel Larrieux
 
Taylor Swift has a lot of great songs

"White Horse"

Say you're sorry, that face of an angel
Comes out just when you need it to
As I paced back and forth all this time
Cause I honestly believed in you

Holding on, the days drag on
Stupid girl, I should have known
I should have known

I'm not a princess, this ain't a fairy tale
I'm not the one you'll sweep off her feet
Lead her up the stairwell

This ain't Hollywood, this is a small town
I was a dreamer before you went and let me down
Now it's too late for you and your white horse, to come around


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"You're Not Sorry"

You don't have to call anymore
I won't pick up the phone
This is the last straw
Don't wanna hurt anymore

And you can say that you're sorry
But I don't believe you baby
Like I did before
You're not sorry, no, no, no, no


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"Forever and Always"


Once upon a time, I believe it was a Tuesday
When I caught your eye
We caught onto something, I hold on to the night
You looked me in the eye and told me you loved me
Were you just kidding? 'Cause it seems to me

This thing is breaking down, we almost never speak
I don't feel welcome anymore
Baby, what happened? Please tell me
'Cause one second it was perfect
Now you're halfway out the door

And I stare at the phone; he still hasn't called
And then you feel so low, you can't feel nothin' at all
And you flashback to when he said, forever and always
Oh, oh

And it rains in your bedroom, everything is wrong
It rains when you're here and it rains when you're gone
'Cause I was there when you said forever and always


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"Tell Me Why"

I took a chance, I took a shot
And you might think I'm bulletproof but I'm not
You took a swing, I took it hard
And down here from the ground, I see who you are

I'm sick and tired of your attitude
I'm feeling like I don't know you
You tell me that you love me then you cut me down

And I need you like a heartbeat
But you know you got a mean streak
Makes me run for cover when you're around

And here's to you and your temper
Yes, I remember what you said last night
And I know that you see what you're doing to me
Tell me, why?


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Til It Happens To You - Corinne Bailey Rae

I know what I said
Was heat of the moment
But theres a little truth in between the words we've spoken
Its a little late now to fix the heart thats broken
Please don't ask me where I'm going
Cause I don't know
No I don't know anymore

It used to feel like heaven
Used to feel like may
I used to hear those violins playing heart strings like a symphony
Now they've gone away
Nobody wants to face the truth
But you wont believe what love can do
Till it happens to you
Till it happens to you

Went to the old flat
Guess I was trying to turn the clock back
How come that nothing feels the same now when I'm with you
We used to stay up all night in the kitchen
When our love was new
Oooh love I'm a fool to believe in you
Cause I don't know
No I don't know
Anymore

It used to feel like heaven
It used to feel like may
I used to hear those violins playing heart strings like a symphony
Now they've gone away
Nobody wants to know the truth
Until their hearts broken
Don't you dare tell them
What you think to do
Till they get over
You can only learn these things
From experience
When you get older
I just wish that someone would have told me
Till it happens to you
Till it happens to you
Till it happens to you
 
Boyz II Men- Doing Just Fine


There was a time when I thought life
Was over and out, when you went away from me
My dying heart made it hard to breathe
Would sit in my room because I didn't want to
Have to go out and see you walking by

One look and I'd break right down and cry
Now you say that you made a big mistake
Never meant to take your love away
But you can save your tired apologies
'Cause it may seem hard to believe, but

I'm doin' just fine, getting along very well
Without you in my life, I don't need you in my life
I'm doin' just fine, time made me stronger
You're no longer on my mind

You were my earth, my number one priority
I gave my love to only you anything you'd ask of me
I would do but somewhere down the road
You felt a change in the weather and told me that
You had to journey on a kiss in the wind and your
Love was gone

Now, you say you never meant to play
Your games, girl don't you know it's far too late
Because you let our love just fall apart
You no longer have my heart

I'm doin' just fine, getting along very well
Without you in my life, I don't need you in my life
I'm doin' just fine, time made me stronger
You're no longer on my mind

When you said goodbye, I felt so all alone
There were times at night I couldn't sleep
My heart was much too weak to make it on my own
Baby, after all the misery and pain you put me through
So unfair to me girl, you're no longer my world
And I ain't missin' you at all

I'm doin' just fine, getting along very well
Without you in my life, I don't need you in my life
I'm doin' just fine, time made me stronger
You're no longer on my mind

See, baby when you walked away
You didn't think it would end up this way
But I knew you'd be coming 'round someday
Just as sure as my name is Wanya
 
Hard to think of heartbreak when you hear the beauty and genius of Stevie.

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My favorite from Sade.

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Rocket Love - Stevie Wonder
'And at a half a mile from heaven, you dropped me back down to this cold, cold world.' is my favorite line EVAH. It's my required just got dumped song.

Right now, I'm feeling Chrisette Michelle, It's Over because I stayed a long time so that I wouldn't look bad to his and my family and friends. Now I don't give no <bleep> what he tells them. I gotsta go cause I don't want to hate him. Main, it's over.:dead:
 
My top 5:

Changes I've been going through - Mary J Blidge
To Love You More - Celine Dion
Blowing Kisses in the Rain - Paula Adbul
White Flag - Dido
No Ordinary Love - Sade
 
The first phase: sad and depressed

Wish I didn't Miss You - Angie Stone

Goodbye my lover- James Blunt

Lesson Learned - Alicia Keys

Lovefool - The Cardigans

Where Love went wrong - Augustana

Things We Don't Anymore - Jenny Owens Young

Ashes and Wine - A Fine Frenzy
Don't know what to do anymore
I've lost the only love worth fighting for
And I'll drown in my tears, don't they see?
And that would show you, that would make you hurt like me

The Blower's daughter - Damien Rice
Did I say that I loathe you?
Did I say that I want to
Leave it all behind?

I can't take my mind off of you
I can't take my mind off you
I can't take my mind off of you
I can't take my mind off you
I can't take my mind off you
I can't take my mind...
My mind...my mind...
'Til I find somebody new

Coffee & Cigarettes - Michelle Featherstone
But it's true
I'm still blue
But I finally know what to do
I must quit
I must quit
You

Phase 2: No explanation needed but I want him to die a slow and painful death !!!! :lachen:

You Oughta Know - Alanis Morissette

Die Motherf___er Die - Ordinary World

F***, Was I - Jenny Owen Young

F**K You - Lily Allen

You F****d Up - Ween

Your Ex-Lover Is Dead - Stars

Gives you hell - The All American Rejects

Phase 3: Explains what was wrong with him :grin:

Ur So gay - Katy Perry

You're So Vain - Carly Simon

You're so cold - Will Diley

Tyrone - Erykah Badu

Guily as charged - Gym Class Heroes

According to You - Orianthi
 
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