Wow! Interesting...
I have a few questions though for you women who this has happened to (wanting to throw up after a guy kisses you):
1) Was the "repulsed" feeling due to the fact that you just were never physically attracted to him in the first place? Or, was it more that the kiss itself was either weird, awkward, or nasty (ie. his lips were cracked, or too much saliva, or his breath stunk...etc.) What
WAS it?
Yes, the repulsed feeling was because I was NEVER physically attracted to him in the first place. The kiss was also awkward but nothing nasty about it, just awkward like it should be happening.
2) Do you think some guys get "repulsed" also when they
FINALLY kiss some girl that they had their eye on? Or do you think this mainly happens to women since we're typically not the "pursuers"?
Ummm...I've never heard of a man complaining about being repulsed unless she wasn't good in bed.
3) Has the
opposite also happened to any of you ladies? Maybe you weren't really feeling a certain guy, but after kissing him one day you realize that he's a better kisser than you thought and you start to see him in a different light? :eyebrows2 I'm wondering too if people have had the experience where they were
really into a guy, but when they finally kissed, there was just no chemistry...no feeling....nada...niente...niet....rien... lol*
No, the opposite has never happened to me.
I'm wondering because I'm dealing with this right now...
There's this guy that's interested in me, and although I'm not attracted to him, I'm trying to at least give him a chance I guess. Before in the past I would flick off a guy like a flea if I wasn't the least bit attracted to him. I wouldn't even give him the time of day!
But the older I get, the more and more I figure that perhaps I should at least give
SOME of these guys a chance... Is this a bad idea??
I don't want to one day kiss him and get physically ill....
You know Crystalicequeen123...that was the same thing I did w/ this guy. He wasn't my type but overall a good catch so I gave him a chance and it didn't work. See, usually if I'm not attracted to a guy, I won't even get one step closer..but I thought I'd try and it was a disaster. erplexed
I mean girl, I left his house nearly in tears mainlly because I'm like why did I feel this way. I wanted it to work because like I said he is a good catch. But even the thought of the kiss right now repulses me. Meanwhile he's been texting and calling wanting to see me. I told him I was booked up all weekend.