Dumb question on the first date....

[Mimi22]

My friend recently went on a date with a really handsome, insightful guy. She said he was well knowledgeable on topics like religion and politics and it was really refreshing to have a smart companion. Well that is until he asked her about her career. Now she works in microbiology like me...so you guess'd it...infections, infections, infections. Feel free to go "uh-oh"....

His question then went along the lines of:

GuyX: "So you handle all sorts of infections?"

GirlY: "Everything from HIV to Strongyloides...we handle bacteria, viruses, fungi etc"

GuyX: "Can I ask a really quick question. If a guy has unprotected sex with a girl, and then has a really quick shower afterwards. Is he then clean? Is the HIV or something like gonorrhoea washed away?"

GirlY: "erplexed No, that's impossible"

GuyX: "Really? oh....ok"


Now she's scratching her head wondering how a 28 year old man, with an honours degree could be so ignorant on sexual health

Worst, he's asked her out on a 2nd date. Her response? "I'll think about it"

What say you? Would you think about it or KIM?

 

[lexi08]

Uh that level of ignorance would be a turn off for me KIM

 

[Likeyouneverseenme]

That is not a "friend" he is talking about, that is his itchy penis.

Gross.

 

[Kiadodie]

That is not a "friend" he is talking about, that is his itchy penis.

Gross.

It sounds like he's talking about himself. That question would turn me off ,..


BTW, what does KIM mean?

 

[lexi08]

It sounds like he's talking about himself. That question would turn me off ,..


BTW, what does KIM mean?

Keep it moving

 

[lux10023]

28 yr old---errr um no bueno smh

 

[weaveologist]

Book smart does not always equal common sense. I tell people all the time that a degree only means that you are an expert in that particular field. That's it. LOL!

 

[Mimi22]

That is not a "friend" he is talking about, that is his itchy penis.

Gross.

So I take it that's a "no" on thinking about it?

 

[TayMac]

What a dummy...I wouldn't see him again.

 

[Zuleika]

That is not a "friend" he is talking about, that is his itchy penis.

Gross.

 

[Zuleika]

It sounds like he's talking about himself. That question would turn me off ,..


BTW, what does KIM mean?

KIM= Keep it moving

 

[Still Sexy Stewardess]

Ineligible Bachelor. Next!

 

[soulie]

Book smart does not always equal common sense. I tell people all the time that a degree only means that you are an expert in that particular field. That's it. LOL!

It shouldn't have taken a degree in microbiology to answer that question. Middle school health class should have covered that topic for him.

 

[NYAmicas]

Heck no, I'd be wondering how many wash ups he been up to. Idiot. He probably thinks he could wash out and reuse the condom since it's rubber.

 

[Bachelorette]

I cant even think of an excuse for him.

 

[SW2011]

Dumb question and it would be a turn off for me...but believe me, he's not a rare breed. Because I work with HIV+ people, other people are always asking me questions about HIV and other STDs. More often than not, these are questions that I feel grown people should already have the answer to, but at least they are asking the question now.

 

[mswoman]

I think this is why there needs to be a high level of STD education in the community!!!!