Doing It When You're Sick

pookaloo83

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Is sex still on the table when you are sick?
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Fever, throwing up, aching body sick? Hell no. Don't even come near me. Headache maybe. Sex has always helped my headaches.
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My husband doesn't think "sick" is an excuse....

Now if I am vomiting, feverish, massive pain, etc, then no. But a cold or something? Of course.
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There is no such thing as an excuse...when one party doesn't want to participate, it's no go. That's called consent.
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If I dont feel good, Im not interested. It's bad enough I have to do other things: go to work (depending on the illness), get dinner, other necesssary activities but sex aint one of em.
 
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My husband's sinuses have him feeling a little bad. I tried to touch him last night and he was whining about being sick. I left him alone. LOL
 
somehow, when i'm sick the symptoms suddenly seem to bother me less when sex comes up :lol: i'm not being funny either, like if i have a stopped up nose, i suddenly can breathe easier :lol:

ive had sex while having a cold all the time. now that im thinking about it ive never really felt so bad where i didnt want to have sex. then again, most of the time my sexual excursions are planned in advance.
 
It makes me feel better. :yep:
Gets rid of my headache, clears up my sinuses, and I'll be great for about 20 minutes afterwards. :lol:


My SO has a really strong immune system. I can pretty much cough in his face and sneeze in his food and he won't get sick, so that's not an issue.


ETA: I'm talking about a common cold, though. I don't think I'd be able to be with someone who's trying to get it in while I'm throwing up or if I have diarrhea or something.
 
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For me it is a MAJOR turnoff when my man wants to have sex with me when I am sick. Sometimes I actually might feel like doing it but the fact that he is being selfish makes me feel like a piece of meat. No nookie for the inconsiderate!
 
lesedi said:
For me it is a MAJOR turnoff when my man wants to have sex with me when I am sick. Sometimes I actually might feel like doing it but the fact that he is being selfish makes me feel like a piece of meat. No nookie for the inconsiderate!
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:yep: If I initiate it that's something different BUT if I say, honey I'm sick and he's like take your medicine and spread 'em, then I have a problem.
 
SO leaves me alone sexually when I don't feel well. I get moody as h*ll when sick. He does sweet things like bringing tea, making food, cleaning up, etc.
 
Don't TOUCH me when i'm sick and if you're visbly sick as well! Of course DH thinks sex is a cure all for ANY ailment so even when he has a cold he's ready to go. These 3 days since his surgery have been a nice break for me in that sense :)!
 
I've done it while I'm sick. If its a little cold or something, I'll still get it in. But if I feel nauseous or like I'm going to pass out I don't even want to be touched. And once I was doing it and I had to stop to throw up so :look:......now if I feel that way I just want to be left alone.
 
Friday night i started sneezing a lot and Saturday morning i woke up super congested but fine for the most part. had some awesome morning sex and was feeling pretty good about it. that is, until about an hour later when i got in my car and saw that my cave was filled with tons of crusty bats.:nono::lachen: why ain't he tell me?:ohwell: i would not be able to have sex with a dood who had a nose full. guys really must be blinded by pussy.:lol:

so from here on out, i will not be having sex when i'm sick. or i'll just check the mirror and blow my nose first.:look:
 
Actually, I read a study or article that said that men get turned on when they feel pity for their spouse or significant other.
 
meesch said:
somehow, when i'm sick the symptoms suddenly seem to bother me less when sex comes up :lol: i'm not being funny either, like if i have a stopped up nose, i suddenly can breathe easier
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ive had sex while having a cold all the time. now that im thinking about it ive never really felt so bad where i didnt want to have sex. then again, most of the time my sexual excursions are planned in advance.
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This ish right here had me about to fall off the cough..Im getting over a cold now and I don't ever think I would wanted to do the do while sick but with the way I have been feeling while sick I think I may in the future..
 
My husband is never too sick. Me? I can't when I'm sick. I don't like to have sex unless I feel cute. I'm not cute when I'm sick. A slight headache is where I draw the line.
 
When I'm sick coloring makes me feel better. Sweats it out.
But vomiting....depends...if im nauseated probably not unless done in certain positions.
 
Depends on how sick, and the symptoms. Nausea? Absolutely not. A sore throat? I'm game, but no mouth to mouth kissing 'cause I don't wanna pass a cold back and forth
 
If it's a gastrointestinal illness, sore throat, or fever, it's not happening. :nono:

Windsy said:
:yep: If I initiate it that's something different BUT if I say, honey I'm sick and he's like take your medicine and spread 'em, then I have a problem.
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Exactly. This isn't an issue in my relationship, but I :nono: at the men (or women) who do this. I think it's disrespectful.
 
I've never turned away having sex because I was feeling sick.

If I'm feeling that sick, like body pains, sore through, swollen eyes, sweating profusely from a fever, he won't want any anyway lol.
 
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