itismehmmkay
Well-Known Member
How do you feel about that?
Does you SO help you out Financially??
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drasgrl
Well-Known Member
Ditto........
Keep1Belle
New Member
Mine does not.
I would never ask my bf for money. we have only been dating for 3 months, even if longer I dont think I would. But, seeing how he is now, he would probably give me money without asking.
For instance almost every time I drive to his place in the morning before I leave he takes my car to fill with gas. Why I ask, he says because gas is expensive and he doesnt want me spending my money to come see him.
i guess that may qualify as "help" though Im not sure if thats what you meant. I think you mean like borrowing/loaning money.
In that case I have done that for a SO when I was 18 0r 19 and dont think I would do that again.
I would never ask my bf for money. we have only been dating for 3 months, even if longer I dont think I would. But, seeing how he is now, he would probably give me money without asking.
For instance almost every time I drive to his place in the morning before I leave he takes my car to fill with gas. Why I ask, he says because gas is expensive and he doesnt want me spending my money to come see him.
i guess that may qualify as "help" though Im not sure if thats what you meant. I think you mean like borrowing/loaning money.
In that case I have done that for a SO when I was 18 0r 19 and dont think I would do that again.
FlowerHair
Reclaiming my time
He helps me out sometimes when I need it and vice versa.
We've been together for 3 years now.
We've been together for 3 years now.
filthyfresh
New Member
Not right now because he's graduating from college in May. But whenever I needed it and he had it, he'd give it to me. I never had to ask. Truthfully, I'm too prideful to ask. I'll starve before I ask my SO or my Mom for $. Now from Daddy...that's another story...LOL.
But SO says (and I quote) "Once I get my full-time job, I'm going to concentrate on paying down OUR debt, because when we get married I want us to be debt-free."
But SO says (and I quote) "Once I get my full-time job, I'm going to concentrate on paying down OUR debt, because when we get married I want us to be debt-free."
january noir
Sunny On a Cloudy Day
He has when I was short on cash and he tells me that he would take care of me if I lost my job or something; but I would have to change my spending habits! 
But prayerfully, that won't happen.
I make more money then he does and I don't help him out financially; nor has he ever needed it or asked. He makes enough money to keep us both modestly comfortable.
However, he pays for our dates or treats; but I treat him too.
But prayerfully, that won't happen.
I make more money then he does and I don't help him out financially; nor has he ever needed it or asked. He makes enough money to keep us both modestly comfortable.
However, he pays for our dates or treats; but I treat him too.
pearlfection
New Member
For the first time in my adult life i can say NO and me no likey I'm trying to adjust to it and be a big girl about the situation. LOL! I have never had to ask in the past either it was just done.
miss Congeniality
New Member
Honestly, I've never had a SO help me out financially. I was always the one that was better off. If someone would try to help me financial, I would know how to act/what to say.
stinastina
New Member
Yes. We've been together off and on 5 years.
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