SelahOco
Well-Known Member
Some days I feel like I can take endless amounts of attention from DH. It doesn't happen often but when it does he generally indulges me.
Like sometimes I wanna text a lot or I'm emailing him about something silly and he always responds. Or I go in the room and bite him or something and he just laughs like...you bored huh?
Whenever I wanna talk he always makes himself available and I'm just so grateful for it. I'm not a really needy person, but if I want to act needy, he never makes me feel bad for it.
It's quite sweet really.
Anyway, made me wonder if you're paired with a person who gives you the attention you want, an if not how you manage it.
It occurred to me one day that I must have learned somewhere along the way growing up that wanting attention is a bad thing. So even though he indulges me, I'm very grateful because I half expect him to be annoyed by it (one of my shadow beliefs maybe?)
Anyway, just curious how other people express their need for attention in relationships.
Like sometimes I wanna text a lot or I'm emailing him about something silly and he always responds. Or I go in the room and bite him or something and he just laughs like...you bored huh?
Whenever I wanna talk he always makes himself available and I'm just so grateful for it. I'm not a really needy person, but if I want to act needy, he never makes me feel bad for it.
It's quite sweet really.
Anyway, made me wonder if you're paired with a person who gives you the attention you want, an if not how you manage it.
It occurred to me one day that I must have learned somewhere along the way growing up that wanting attention is a bad thing. So even though he indulges me, I'm very grateful because I half expect him to be annoyed by it (one of my shadow beliefs maybe?)
Anyway, just curious how other people express their need for attention in relationships.