tatiana
Well-Known Member
I swear it does. Ever since I started dating, I have had a Latin boyfriend. In fact, I have had more Latin boyfriends than blacks. I don't look "Latin" and even after the BC, they still talk to me more than blacks. I do live in a predominant Latin city and neighborhood but when I have lived in a predominant White city and neighborhood, I still attracted Latin men most and then White and then followed by black men. I have never lived in a Black neighborhood.
Now I have had some Blacks think I act foreign. I have had some Latins think I am Afro-latina or from some other country. I was born in the states, my parents born in the states, grandparents born in the states and so on and so on. I am not understanding this I talk/act foreign.
I am somewhat perplex because from my understanding most of my black girlfriends have never dated outside of their race or maybe once or twice.
I am totally perplex why black American males don't dig me. Africans give me strange looks. A west Indies male may speak to find out where I am from. Afro-Latino totally in to me. Black American male: nada. To give an example, two months ago I asked a black American male out to the movies that I have been talking to for about a year (I am shy), the brother agreed but he stands me up. This past weekend a Latin guy I've known for about a year asked me out to the movies. What gives?
Did my first latin boyfriend spray Latin Boy spray on me so Latin men are more attracted to me? please help a sista out. I don't mind Latin heat but at times hot chocolate would be nice too.
Now I have had some Blacks think I act foreign. I have had some Latins think I am Afro-latina or from some other country. I was born in the states, my parents born in the states, grandparents born in the states and so on and so on. I am not understanding this I talk/act foreign.
I am somewhat perplex because from my understanding most of my black girlfriends have never dated outside of their race or maybe once or twice.
I am totally perplex why black American males don't dig me. Africans give me strange looks. A west Indies male may speak to find out where I am from. Afro-Latino totally in to me. Black American male: nada. To give an example, two months ago I asked a black American male out to the movies that I have been talking to for about a year (I am shy), the brother agreed but he stands me up. This past weekend a Latin guy I've known for about a year asked me out to the movies. What gives?
Did my first latin boyfriend spray Latin Boy spray on me so Latin men are more attracted to me? please help a sista out. I don't mind Latin heat but at times hot chocolate would be nice too.