mischka
shrinkage.
I have this problem when I first meet guys not knowing how often to contact them. I feel like when I really like a guy I can come on too strong and end up contacting him too frequently and it turns him off. Mostly I just keep doing it bc I'm bored and want someone to talk to. So, knowing this, I try to force myself not to contact them and wait for them to get in contact with me first. The whole thing makes me really anxious because for some reason I can't find a natural balance and it's uncomfortable. I tell myself, no harm will come from him thinking I'm less interested than I am so it's better to be as aloof as I can manage.
I have sort of a block about this, I can't see it objectively so it always ends up feeling really worrisome. Ultimately I want to scrap the whole thing altogether because it's too stressful and it shouldn't be. You know?
So what do you do?
I have sort of a block about this, I can't see it objectively so it always ends up feeling really worrisome. Ultimately I want to scrap the whole thing altogether because it's too stressful and it shouldn't be. You know?
So what do you do?