Do/will u look/feel more attractive with long hair?

[Marand13]

I have a round face and look funny IMO with short hair. Long & big hair suits me best

 

[softblackcotton]

I think having long 4b hair will make feel and look more exotic. I always always get comments about how thick my hair is but imagine if it was long and thick and Huge! Ive always wanted long hair always been on the cusp of apl before my hair broke off and I had to start again.

 

[pisceschica]

I have a round, wide face. I feel and look better with longer hair.

 

[Monaleezza]

I want long hair simply because I've never had it. I wore short cuts for years which were cute.

But for me long hair is glamorous.
And I love the versatility that it gives me. I'm gorgeous either way. Lol

 

[Lilmama1011]

Nope, I have had chin length hair and felt I was attractive but when I was younger I thought that women with longer hair was most attractive but Halle is an attractive icon and keeps her short hair and actually looks better with short hair

 

[D.Lisha]

I think longer hair suits my face and it definitely scores points in adding alittle extra "umph" to my sex appeal....

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[MicheePrings]

When I was relaxed my hair was between Apl and Bsl the majority of the time, so I was used to having "long" hair and I naturally feel that I look better with long hair. When I BC'ed I really did miss the length and still yearn for it to come back. But in place of length for now I am enjoying the fullness and body of my natural hair.

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[Monaleezza]

I hate the thought of women thinking that they only look attractive when they have long hair or can only feel attractive if they have long hair.
Is it me or does it seem like the solution is in building self esteem rather than in growing hair longer?!
We are gorgeous, all of us, long hair, short hair, no hair!
Grow your hair because you can, not because you need to, because you don't! You're amazing, gorgeous and beautiful, your hair is just an extension of your gorgeousness!

 

[ManiiSweetheart]

Honestly, the longer my hair gets the more attractive i feel. I grew up having long hair.. I'd say BSLish until i got my first relaxer.. and now since my hair is growing and retaining excellently i feel like i achieved something special and i like that whether its curly or straight

 

[Carmelella]

Monaleezza

I think the poll was asking how do you feel your best,.. it wasn't a cut and dry "I am ugly with short hair, i am pretty with long hair"... hence why it used "most"

I feel the most attractive with longer hair, the most attractive with a thinner body, the most attractive wearing cute glasses,... ect. Being in a state where I feel "most attractive" doesn't automatically make me a happier person though. My happiness isn't 100% dependent on my physical self (but it sure is greater than 0%)

Also, there is nothing wrong with working on your outer self to suit your ideals as long as you're positive that it is YOUR ideal and not something force-fed to you by others. When you achieve your goals no matter what they are self esteem usually rises. If it doesn't,.. u probably need to work on deeper issues.

 

[danysedai]

My face is round and I'm overweight so I feel that longer hair suits me. But I have a short honey caramel human hair wig and I've gotten tons of compliments when I wear it, although I try to wear it with tops that have a collar and with some interesting necklace.

 

[strawbewie]

I love long hair especially extra long hair. I feel beautiful and sexy!! I love a medium bob.. I look more cute with the bob.

 

[Seamonster]

After my last BC I felt defeated, ugly, and unattractive because my hair was so short. I blogged about feeling naked without my massive afro;I had learned to hide behind my afro. Everyday I would go out with this short hair feeling exposed and vulnerable, scared folks would see my bald spots through my hair.

Lol, now I am used to short hair and prefer it. I feel powerful, and in control; I can see everything thing that is going on, and I can get my point across better with short hair. I have learned how to use the short haired ladies head tilt with my side eye. We women can be silly.

 

[getoffmylawn]

I feel more attractive to others with long hair but prefer short hair

 

[Cherry89]

Its my crown.. Long or short I will love it.. but I think I look better with long hair because, I have a big head and round cheeks, so big and long hair fits me veerrrrryyy well.

 

[IMFOCSD]

I hate the thought of women thinking that they only look attractive when they have long hair or can only feel attractive if they have long hair.
Is it me or does it seem like the solution is in building self esteem rather than in growing hair longer?!
We are gorgeous, all of us, long hair, short hair, no hair!
Grow your hair because you can, not because you need to, because you don't! You're amazing, gorgeous and beautiful, your hair is just an extension of your gorgeousness!

Monaleezayou have a good point but I actually meant what makes you feel "most" attractive. Like with me I look nice with short hair..but I love the way I look with longer hair.

Monaleezza

I think the poll was asking how do you feel your best,.. it wasn't a cut and dry "I am ugly with short hair, i am pretty with long hair"... hence why it used "most"

I feel the most attractive with longer hair, the most attractive with a thinner body, the most attractive wearing cute glasses,... ect. Being in a state where I feel "most attractive" doesn't automatically make me a happier person though. My happiness isn't 100% dependent on my physical self (but it sure is greater than 0%)

Also, there is nothing wrong with working on your outer self to suit your ideals as long as you're positive that it is YOUR ideal and not something force-fed to you by others. When you achieve your goals no matter what they are self esteem usually rises. If it doesn't,.. u probably need to work on deeper issues.

carmella I couldn't have said it better myself

 

[Ogoma]

I feel like there should be other options included in the poll.

I will neither look nor feel more attractive with long hair. I can work any hair length to my advantage and feel and look attractive at all lengths.

 

[belldandy]

I think I look more attractive, and I feel sexy when I wear it down. I also love the versatility that long hair offers.

 

[IMFOCSD]

I feel like there should be other options included in the poll.

I will neither look nor feel more attractive with long hair. I can work any hair length to my advantage and feel and look attractive at all lengths.

Ogoma I made this thread back on 07 lol...and at the time the questions I asked in the poll was something that came to mind...

 

[naija24]

I always thought that I didn't care either way. I think I'm beautiful with short or long hair, it doesn't matter to me. However, I FEEL more feminine with long hair.

I think I wouldn't care as much if I wasn't involved with someone.

 

[Stormy]

I'm more of a big haired, kind of long haired person. As long as it's past SL (which is kind of long for me) I'm good. I feel sexy and even more attractive with it big, like my BAA. Love it! The only real reason I want the length is to have more versatility.

 

[My Friend]

I like long hair.

 

[hnntrr]

I always thought I was....test was confirmed soon as I put these WL twists in. .... kinda makes me sad to be honest, people only think I am pretty when I have hair down to my butt.

 

[RngdeCurls]

I think I will feel more attractive with longer hair. Growing up, all the girls in my neighborhood had EL hair, so being SL made me really standout. I liked feeling unique-- being able to do things with my hair that other girls couldn't (like make ponytails.) I feel most beautiful when I have a look that's different but all my own and I think having long hair will give me that.

 

[lilpinkdove]

Hmm ok so I too had to do some soul searching on this very same topic. And what I realized is that for me long hair is safe pretty. When I didn't feel as good about myself I would slap in a 16 inch virgin indi hair and voila the compliments start flying. Now I still didn't really feel good about my self but the compliments helped me in my slump. So I had to fix my own self esteem issues. Don't get me wrong I still rock my 16 inch hair and feel sexy but I also rock my pseudo short hair do's and feel mad edgy or my big curly braid/Bantu knot outs and I feel Sexy and Edgy!! So really I think I prefer this look over long and straight. Sorry for the novel : )

 

[Mahogony7]

I can rock short or long styles with ease. I had a short bob for the past seven years. 95% of my wigs are short. I'm just growing my hair long because I want to try something new and it is a goal I have set and will achieve soon

 

[mshoneyfly]

As long as my hair bouces when I walk, I feel beautiful. Having longer hair will just be icing on the cake

 

[PinkSunshine77]

yes. I had short hair for over 5 yrs and I could never get my hair to grow out back the way I like it until now.

 

[RegaLady]

I answered before but I will answer again because my answers change and develop on this topic,lol.

I felt AMAZING with my short cut and never thought I could feel attractive with long hair. I was wrong I got my hair done and the way it was blowing and moving in the wind made me feel so sexy. So it is safe to say, I rock any length very well. From short Halle cuts, to bobs, to shoulder length to longer in any texture.

 

[bhndbrwneyes]

one reason why I'm hesitant to BC.