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Do/will u look/feel more attractive with long hair?

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How do u feel?

  • I feel more attractive with long hair.

    Votes: 565 54.1%
  • I will feel more attractive with long hair.

    Votes: 383 36.7%
  • I look more attractive with long hair.

    Votes: 378 36.2%
  • I will look more attractive with long hair.

    Votes: 241 23.1%

  • Total voters
    1,045
I've seen very long thin hair, and I've seen very short thick hair. I used to think long hair equals beauty but LHCF has shaken things up for me. I care more for health and thickness now then when I first joined.
 
i honestly think i look better now that its APL then when it was MBL like in my siggy
the cut shapes my face really well esp since i got layers also and i feel more sexy and it makes me look more mature

however i think cutting my hair to APL did take away 80% of my exoticalness cause i dont get the "you must be mixededed!" questions or statements anymore.booooooooo i actually miss that :look: lol
 
I look more attractive with long hair or at least sexier, it definitely enhances my appeal and makes me feel.... the word vivacious comes to mind. I do think thickness is a major factor in how hair is perceived though even if people don't acknowledge it.. I'm lovin my thick relaxed APL hair since I can do both straight and bigger textured styles but thin relaxed APL hair wouldn't be the business for me :nono:, I'd do something else with my hair if that were the case.

however i think cutting my hair to APL did take away 80% of my exoticalness cause i dont get the "you must be mixededed!" questions or statements anymore.booooooooo i actually miss that :look: lol

:lol::lol::lol:
 
Definitely the longer my hair gets, the better I look. I'm not a short hair kinda gal...my face is too fat, so I can't carry it off. :yep:
 
I like my hair long, I feel attractive with my APL hair now and can't wait until MBL.

But when I had my hair cut into a bob it really suited my face and I felt chic. And man my big chop took me to feeling fierce!

I think I look good at any length as long as the cut suits me, and having my hair how I want it at the time is really what makes me feel attractive.
 
I thought I would, and I guess I do...when I went back to my old high school, almost everyone (even my old teachers) commented on how I should have grown my hair out a long time ago, long hair suits me so much better, blah blah blah.

I was like dang man. :ohwell:
 
I won't necessarily look more attractive but I'll feel down right extra sexy....

I totally feel this way too. I've had major cuts that were cute, but it's something about having long hair that makes me feel "extra" sexy.
 
I always though I looked better with longer hair but when I BCd (to a caesar) men women and kids told me they loved my hair like that ... aparently it shows my fetaures better.
actually i used to get those comments when I wore my hair in a bun too .... so I guess its the same principle.


in any case now that Im natural I prefer BIG hair lol ... but ppl still tell me they loved my TWA oh well too bad for them because Im on the GROW !!! :lachen:
 
I feel more attractive with BIG-arse hair..
but to get BIG hair, i suppose it also needs to be looooonnggg.
So by consequence I feel better with longer hair.
 
i honestly think i look better now that its APL then when it was MBL like in my siggy
the cut shapes my face really well esp since i got layers also and i feel more sexy and it makes me look more mature

however i think cutting my hair to APL did take away 80% of my exoticalness cause i dont get the "you must be mixededed!" questions or statements anymore.booooooooo i actually miss that :look: lol

She went there!! :lachen:
 
I won't lie. I had a Rihanna bob and I got compliments but now with bsl, straight huir I get the occasional 'damn!' :lachen: or full out head turns.

Whether for good or bad, but Femininity/beauty goes hand in hand with long hair.:drunk:
 
I prefer longer hair since that is what I am used to but I am loving my curls since I have BC'd.

However, I do feel more confident and/or attractive with longer hair.
 
She went there!! :lachen:
lmao you know how people make those posts like "Oh my gaaah i cant believe dis gurl thought i was mixed cuh uh my huur,i am soo upset *insert fake angry face*" lol i give them the major side eye cause when people used to ask if im half dominican and half cherokee cause of my hair i actually kinda.....liked/enjoyed it.........:look: now people just think im only 25% mixed cause i got APL hair :sad::ohwell:....sigh...i guess it be like that sometimes lol
 
I feel more attractive with long hair but I'm not sure if I necessarily look more attractive.

I feel like I look most attractive with hair that frames my face whether it's collarbone length or mid back.

But I still prefer to keep my hair long :-p
 
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lmao you know how people make those posts like "Oh my gaaah i cant believe dis gurl thought i was mixed cuh uh my huur,i am soo upset *insert fake angry face*" lol i give them the major side eye cause when people used to ask if im half dominican and half cherokee cause of my hair i actually kinda.....liked/enjoyed it.........:look: now people just think im only 25% mixed cause i got APL hair :sad::ohwell:....sigh...i guess it be like that sometimes lol

Honestly, I found it a little annoying (the Dominican thing--no one ever guessed Cherokee except some actual Native Americans LOL). I understood it, but I lived in the Heights for a while, so it was an everyday occurrence. I think it's the whole "assumption," thing. Of course, you know I believe we are all mixed, so that goes off on my whole tangent of this "new race" called "biracial" that makes no sense, as most of us are already biracial, tri-racial, etc....
 
I don't know about feeling more attractive, but long hair certainly makes me feel more sultry, especially when I'm dancing.
 
Cherokee-n-Black said:
that goes off on my whole tangent of this "new race" called "biracial" that makes no sense, as most of us are already biracial, tri-racial, etc....

There's definitely such thing as being biracial. And yes all people on the planet are racially mixed but most people have one racial group contributing to the majority of their bloodline.

Most blacks here in the US have a white or Native American ancestor but that doesn't necessarily mean they are bi or tri racial (unless you're taking about a parent or grandparent who is of another race).
 
When I was in college in my late teens/early 20s I loved my shaggy pixie cut; it totally fit my personality and style.

Now that I am older and much heavier, I feel longer hair balances me out, so I keep it at least shoulder length and am aiming for more. :yep:
 
i feel like i will look more attractive and feel more attractive when i get to waist length.
i know i know, beauty comes from within and all that good stuff.
but at the end of the day long hair represents femininity and beauty.
not to say women with shorter hair (including myself) are'nt beautiful, but thats just how i see it :)
 
I feel more attractive with long hair but I'm not sure if I necessarily look more attractive.

I feel like I look most attractive with hair that frames my face whether it's collarbone length or mid back.

But I still prefer to keep my hair long :-p

This is exactly how i feel....especially when my bangs cover my eyes.
 
Make no mistake about it - I felt attractive when my hair was short but I still feel more attractive with longer hair.
 
i look better and have serious confidence with short hair. long hair makes me look like a kid. i get more compliments when my hair is short. but i want longer hair because i wanna see what it is like to have hair past APL. i wanna see if i will have some life altering experience! :lol:
 
I've had really short and I've had really long hair. Long hair compliments my face shape a lot better. Even though I love short hair styles.
 
I want longer hair to get past shoulder length. I had really long hair after I had my son which was 22 years ago. I cut my hair and it never grew back. However, I have to admit I did not do half the things I am doing now. Also, I have a daughter who is natural and I would like to learn how to care for her hair because she wants long hair.
 
I just think overall I'm more attractive with longer hair. I don't feel attractive at all with shorter hair. And my hair is short. Maybe a year from now I'll feel more attractive.
 
Most importantly is my body being healthy/attractive.

As far as hair goes I aspire for full shoulder length curly. Idk what that would be stretched. Idk how I'd look/feel with long(er) hair. I've only ever gotten to SL in my adult life. I've had bsl/ MbL weaves but I always feel strange and artificial when wearing weave :ohwell:
 
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