If I may put my 2 cents in...
I am in a relationship have been in the same one for 3 years now...long story short we were living together, then this chick apears appearently the guy who lived with me has been seeing her wayyy before me, he even brought a different cell just for this (and others) girls, I confronted him about it he denied it and got rid of the phone. Ok then she appears again this time on his one and only cell, confronted him about it he denied it. What was i lef to do? call her up, she confirmed it, then said they were engaged??? HUH but he comes home to me EVERY night?? He spends holidays with me!! I tld her why the hell will she even consider marrying him when they don't do like holidays bdays n stuff together? she said he always said he is with his family. A bulub went off. I was going to confront him with her there but I said for what? she is the side HOE? I dropped it then TRIED to move on, she pops up again and I popped his *** right out of my house told him be GONE go play house with her, funny thing is he didn't put up a fight??
I left it alone but see he can't do without me!! we are still together but from a distance. I just recently tried to end it when I saw a facebook page with him and the chick. funny right? yea who u telling, any who he swore it was old. Now the point is some woman are just NASTY and don't care, some do anything to hold on to a man, lose thier self respect just to keep a man...a man values no woman like that!! Once he knows that u r not willing to be or do any of the above or more he will fight to keep ya love!! TRUST!!
Be strong!! let him see, believe and feel that he DO NOT have that control oveer you. shyt yea its gonna hurt, u will make excuses (as u r now) and wonder if you have made the right decision. but know this if you love something sometimes you have to let go and if it comes back then u know it was meant to be if not then that is an experience u needed to go through to grow. Don't think oh cause ya'll "run" into eachother its meant to be, if thats the case i need to be married to my bus driver!! jeje
girl ya'll have NO ties NADA let him go, enjoy being single you need NO one but G_D!!
We don't put as much energy into him as we do these men that cheat, lie and abuse us in any shape or form.
As for me yea I still see him and others. Sex I learned I will have and get more respect making him and them think that they will even SMELL it!!! Now he wants to take me onn a cruise. Bluff or not I am holding him to his word!! bets belive a sister is toggling back and forth between LHCF and Carnival cruise lines. its not a game...
take lyfe for what it is meant to be FUN, up and downs and learing which will result in knowledge!! We all can tell you what u should do but only u know wat is best!! At the end of the day u r the one that will have to deal with ur decision good bad or indifferent. My message is ENJOY LYFE!!! Praise G_D and be grateful for the day you have breathing, free and ALIVE!!
wish ya luck!!