Kkinds
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I've started dating this awesome guy. We knew each other in college and talked/flirted back in forth, but a few months ago we decided to get more serious...be exclusive. He has a lot of female friends. Now I wasn't uncomfortable with this, but in my last relationship my boyfriend at the time had a "friend" who eventually stole my man. Lol I'm over it, but from that point on I've been weary about these so called female friends. I know it may sound childish and immature, but I can't shake the insecurities from my past. Last week her father died and he's coming home from military duty Friday and the funeral is Saturday. He's planning to attend which is only right for a friend to be there for such a tragic time. She was sending him things while he was in AIT school (military school) so I asked him...if they were close. He told me that she wanted to be with him, but he didn't want to and she helped him a lot when he was struggling financially. Do I have a right to feel uncomfortable or an I being petty/letting my past interfere with my current relationship? Also, I've never met this friend mainly because he's been away with the military half of our relationship.