lilliz6
Active Member
My boyfriend and I started dating back in Sept 5, 2009. We made it official Sept 26, 2009. He lives in Chicago (which is where I am from and I currently live in ATL). We talk multiple times a day, he wants to marry me, we have similar goals and he really is a caring person.
One day (the last week in October) I recieve a phone call from his ex-girlfriend. She says they are living together, he has 2 kids with her and 1 on the way. Of course I call him to find out what's going on.... He says they are not together, yes she's 8 months pregnant, but she is moving out in upcoming February. He tells me he did this because he knew I would say that he has too much going on right now and that I wouldn't give him a chance knowing all this upfront.... (and you know this exactly what I would have said! lol)
I definitely told him don't ever call me again because I don't want to be with a liar and I don't need the drama. She did move out in February (in February the kid is like 3 months old).
He continued to call me day in and day out....So I decided to give him another chance.
We have been talking up until now just as much as we did in the beginning, we get along very well. I love him and he is very much in love with me. But the major problem for me is that I have always imagined myself with a man who only has children with me. I feel like I'm giving up my dream of what I have always wanted...plus I don't want another woman in my mans life, period.
What do you all think I should do?
One day (the last week in October) I recieve a phone call from his ex-girlfriend. She says they are living together, he has 2 kids with her and 1 on the way. Of course I call him to find out what's going on.... He says they are not together, yes she's 8 months pregnant, but she is moving out in upcoming February. He tells me he did this because he knew I would say that he has too much going on right now and that I wouldn't give him a chance knowing all this upfront.... (and you know this exactly what I would have said! lol)
I definitely told him don't ever call me again because I don't want to be with a liar and I don't need the drama. She did move out in February (in February the kid is like 3 months old).
He continued to call me day in and day out....So I decided to give him another chance.
We have been talking up until now just as much as we did in the beginning, we get along very well. I love him and he is very much in love with me. But the major problem for me is that I have always imagined myself with a man who only has children with me. I feel like I'm giving up my dream of what I have always wanted...plus I don't want another woman in my mans life, period.
What do you all think I should do?
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