I've always heard that women marry men like their fathers, and the fathers and daughters thread in OT, has me thinking that I did.
My dad was very affectionate, loving and overprotective and so is my husband.
My dad was extremely overprotective as far as I was concerned and I ended up with someone exactly the same. I mentioned in the other thread that my dad came out looking for me when I was out with a boy for just a few minutes longer than he felt it was supposed to take to walk to the store.
When I used to work, god forbid I stayed late to do overtime. My husband would call every few minutes wanting to know, what I was doing, who else was there and how much longer I was going to be. He even did this if I was visiting family. He is so happy that I no longer work. But even when I taught Zumba last year, working for the first time in about a decade, he would show up and take all of my classes. I actually had to kick him out because I felt it was confusing my students. I'm there leading the class and he is doing the routines in front right beside me, like we were co instructors, lol. I will state now that it isn't jealousy, because he is very overprotective of his son too. And he is also extremely affectionate to us both, in different ways of course.
I doubt that it's normal for a man to act so very paternal to his wife. Sometimes even now I have to remind him that he is not my father. But still I chose him. He also is the same height, complexion, build and even shoe size as my dad, lol.
So how about you? Did you marry or choose SO's with similar looks and characteristics of your father?
My dad was very affectionate, loving and overprotective and so is my husband.
My dad was extremely overprotective as far as I was concerned and I ended up with someone exactly the same. I mentioned in the other thread that my dad came out looking for me when I was out with a boy for just a few minutes longer than he felt it was supposed to take to walk to the store.
When I used to work, god forbid I stayed late to do overtime. My husband would call every few minutes wanting to know, what I was doing, who else was there and how much longer I was going to be. He even did this if I was visiting family. He is so happy that I no longer work. But even when I taught Zumba last year, working for the first time in about a decade, he would show up and take all of my classes. I actually had to kick him out because I felt it was confusing my students. I'm there leading the class and he is doing the routines in front right beside me, like we were co instructors, lol. I will state now that it isn't jealousy, because he is very overprotective of his son too. And he is also extremely affectionate to us both, in different ways of course.
I doubt that it's normal for a man to act so very paternal to his wife. Sometimes even now I have to remind him that he is not my father. But still I chose him. He also is the same height, complexion, build and even shoe size as my dad, lol.
So how about you? Did you marry or choose SO's with similar looks and characteristics of your father?