Did You Have Sex With Your Husband Before Marriage?

[SvelteVelvet]

Hello to all my MRS.'s (even former MRS.'s)

I'm hoping for as much participation in the poll as possible.

Feel free to share your experiences if you want, but just answering the poll is good enough for me.

I can expound on the question with more questions but I'd like to give the subject freedom to go wherever it goes based on what anyone is moved to share based their particular experiences.

TIA!

 

[aribell]

There's no poll...

 

[SvelteVelvet]

There's no poll...

It should be there now. I wish it wouldn't post the thread before the poll is ready..lol. I was typing like mad to get it to show up before someone came in here.

 

[Southernbella.]

I voted yes, but we stopped, and we're still going strong.

 

[Kawaii1]

Yes and we are still going strong. We got married in a haste after knowing each other for a few months (military) it seems to be working and I am happy.

 

[KEWLKAT103]

Mmm hmm, sure did.

 

[ThickHair]

Yup, did it before marriage, through marriage. We are divorced now, no sex with the ex though.

 

[aa9746]

I voted: No. It was OUR decision and we're still going strong!

 

[MrsWatson]

My fiance and I have had sex before but recently decided to stop and wait until the wedding night (in June!). It has actually brought us a lot closer and I think I will appreciate my honeymoon a lot more now!

 

[donna894]

Mmm hmm, sure did.

Same here

 

[skatergurljubulee]

I voted no, and we're still going strong. We were able to do this because of our religeous background (committed Christians).

 

[mxdchiq86]

sure did, and we never stopped.

 

[mzcris]

hi there

no...we waited until we got married. we only dated 4 months and got married; and we just celebrated 12 years of marriage!

 

[jamerichameleon]

sure did and we're still going strong, happy as ever together.

 

[Ganjababy]

Of course, I had to see the goods before I committed myself

 

[Nice & Wavy]

No, it was Our decision and we are still going strong....yep!

 

[Transformer]

Yep! Frequency was greater before marriage. We dated 1 year to the day almost before we got married! Married 32 years....about time for the divorce!

 

[ArrrBeee]

Yes and it was a mistake. If I had to do it over again I would have waited. In my opinion it just confuses things.

 

[MissMeWithThatIsh]

Yes we did, and still do

 

[calliope]

We didn't. It was our decision and we're still going strong.

 

[1Aleeesha]

Nope we didn't and we're still going strong 7 years and ain't nobody going nowhere. LOL. It was our decision, Religious background: Muslim.

I didn't need to try out the good before hand, I could tell by the way he walks HAHAHHA

 

[AnnDriena_]

My fiance and I have had sex before but recently decided to stop and wait until the wedding night (in June!). It has actually brought us a lot closer and I think I will appreciate my honeymoon a lot more now!

I know the slogan under your siggy has nothing to do with the poll but

 

[*KP*]

The ones that did then stopped, how long before getting married did you stop and where there any slipups in that time? How easy/difficult was it?

I can't answer the poll because I'm not married yet

 

[SvelteVelvet]

The ones that did then stopped, how long before getting married did you stop and where there any slipups in that time? How easy/difficult was it?

I can't answer the poll because I'm not married yet

I'd like this answered too! Thanks!

 

[Zaynab]

We had sex before we got married.

We planned to stop when we got engaged We only made it sex free for 3months before the wedding. We had slip-ups that didn't involve intercourse

If I could do it all over again, I'd stick with the plan to stop after we got engaged. We were engaged for about a year.

 

[biancaelyse]

No, it was our decsion and it's going very strong. No regrets.

 

[Southernbella.]

The ones that did then stopped, how long before getting married did you stop and where there any slipups in that time? How easy/difficult was it?

I can't answer the poll because I'm not married yet

We stopped about 7 months before the wedding and no, there were no slipups. It was hard.

 

[SvelteVelvet]

We stopped about 7 months before the wedding and no, there were no slipups. It was hard.

I can imagine! Were you living together during that time? OMGoodness, i don't think i'd be able to handle it if I lived with him, actually I could handle it but like you said it would be HARD!

Sexual compatibility is important to me so I don't know about abstaining completely before marriage for me, i commend all who could. But regardless, once the step towards engagement is made, I am going to challenge him, me, and our relationship with a NO-SEX FAST before the wedding with the purpose of blessing and spiritually strengthening our union. It sounds a little oxymoronish to say I'm gonna have pre-marital sex and then try to reverse it to bless our union, but I just...it's important to me.

Whoever he is he's gonna be a Christian church-goer and I'm gonna present it just like that "Honey, let's go on a no-sex fast before our wedding" Or, since I'm trusting and believing he'll be a Christian church-goer maybe he'll be the one to put the chastity belt on before marriage and I'll be the one like "But, babe.." Lol, nah, trust if I find a man that wants to wait to have sex until we're married you best believe I'm gonna be following suit!

 

[JustKiya]

From the first date til last night - it's all good.

 

[dlewis]

From the first date til last night - it's all good.

We did. Married almost 10 years.