See...I like this type of relationship. I would want my future hubby to have been friends w/me first, or at least have things in common with me before we start dating.Even though I'm hesitant to call my DH my best friend, I know he is. We were friends before we started dating and still enjoy the same silly stuff we did then. We have a very comfortable, easy-going relationship (for the most part) that feels more like just hanging out with a buddy than a marriage. But he is not my only friend, and I am not his.
See...I like this type of relationship. I would want my future hubby to have been friends w/me first, or at least have things in common with me before we start dating.
This.I think it's important to be friends, but he doesn't necessarily have to be my best friend.
I think it's healthy as long as you aren't each other's only friends.
FH is hands down my best friend. There is no one I'd rather spend time with than him. I know I can depend on him for anything. I can talk to him about anything. He's there for me 100% percent and I for him.
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Amazingly after all we have been through, I have to say that dh and I are getting to this point too. Initially I didnt even consider him friendable ...he was just my crazy behind husband. My issues are well documented here.
Now we are at a place where we getting closer. HOWEVER, my best friend will always be female. No one understands a woman like another woman. A man/ hubby is cool and all but he CANNOT be my only friend.
This is how I feel.my best friend will always be female. No one understands a woman like another woman..
What PP said^^ DH is best friend then when he gets the glazed guy look when I'm on a rant he can't id with I call my sister
Amazingly after all we have been through, I have to say that dh and I are getting to this point too. Initially I didnt even consider him friendable ...he was just my crazy behind husband. My issues are well documented here.
Now we are at a place where we getting closer. HOWEVER, my best friend will always be female. No one understands a woman like another woman. A man/ hubby is cool and all but he CANNOT be my only friend.