Dealing with ex's and their new loves...

[SamandI]

Yeah all the signs point to they were/are in a relationship. It's so obvious to me. I know there are crazy chicks out there, but for her to get so worked up over op's calls tells me all I need to know.



Right. I'm wondering if op is even reading what she is writing??? None of what she said tells me he is husband material, let alone boyfriend material. Desperate and pathetic don't even begin to cover it. Seriously. I won't even pretend with the well wishes because I want the record to show that I believe this is pure foolishness and a waste of any woman's time who claims to want a marriage and family.

I totally get the seriousness of this here foolishness that is this thread, but Bahahahahahahahahaha!! @ this

 

[ms.mimi]

Jealousy Plotline 101
http://krauserpua.com/2011/11/10/jealousy-plotline-101/
This is why he talked to kinky in front of the other girl. He then had both females.

control+F jealousy
http://www.lovesystems.com/dating-advice/dates/comfort-make-her-like-you
http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2011/08/03/how-to-deal-with-a-girl-gaming-you/

 

[sweetvi]

www.baggagrereclaim.com

that is all

 

[intellectualuva]

Jealousy Plotline 101
http://krauserpua.com/2011/11/10/jealousy-plotline-101/
This is why he talked to kinky in front of the other girl. He then had both females.

control+F jealousy
http://www.lovesystems.com/dating-advice/dates/comfort-make-her-like-you
http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2011/08/03/how-to-deal-with-a-girl-gaming-you/

heartiste.wordpress.com.....

You want to focus on raising your value, and tactically lowering her value, so that she begins to think she would be missing out on something if she continues down the path of irksome aloofness.

krauserpua...........

It’s good to make a girl chase you. It’s even better to make her compete for you. Nothing rouses a woman’s heart like beating another woman to a man.

Heater......

I've learned so much these last few days. Thanks ladies, as usual, you provide insight and entertainment.

 

[Briabiggles]

That man is brilliant! What a con artist!

Sent from my iPad mini mini.

 

[intellectualuva]

www.baggagrereclaim.com

that is all

sweetvi Great suggestions!

I discovered that site towards the end with the last dude. Just a great site to help identify unhealthy relationships and tools to manage the aftershocks.

Love the FB page too.

 

[BraunSugar]

I agree with Fine 4s

Let this thread go for now and let us know how things turn out in a few months.

Imma skip it.

 

[darlingdiva]

Since the OP has no problem being friends with exes and asking favors of men in relationships, I wonder if she'll be okay with her man being friends with his exes and doing them favors...and I wonder if she'll apologize to the ex if she ever calls the ex out of her name in anger.

 

[treybaby2005]

And don't forget living with his parents. Yeah,yeah it's until he buys his house I know!

Thank you for noting that.i just started reading this thread, when I read that sentence, I have been smh ever since. I'm sad for the op.

 

[TayMac]

Seems like it would have been much easier if he called you on Christmas, brought a gift and asked if you wanted to try a relationship again

 

[CharlieEcho]

Nothing wrong with calling an ex or entertaining his affection in this case ( although personally I believe an ex is an ex for a reason) but if he's with another women on Christmas Day, then he was never someone you need to be with.

Sounds like you were stringing him along and once you saw his attention might be elsewhere you called back to mess up whatever he had going with the next chick.

You need to stop messing with this guy and start anew. You've no business getting salty. He's not your man.

 

[gabulldawg]

Sooooo... Any updates? Has the other chick resurfaced yet?

 

[GeorginaSparks]

Kinky you really need to grow up something serious.

Agree. Like when are you going to get it?