Kinkyhairlady
Well-Known Member
I've been in communication with my ex for the past few months just as friends but he's always complaining that he wants back into my life. I brush it off cause I am not sure it would work the 3rd time around. So last night I call him to say Merry Christmas cause I was surprised I did not hear from him all day. Phone rings I hear a female in the background saying open your mouth talk and then the phone hangs up. I was curious and called back and she answers and says he's busy.
About 10 minutes later he calls back and I ask why he has other woman answering his phone. He then says oh she's a special friend and she can do that. So I dig further and say I thought you said you did not have a girlfriend and he goes she's not my girlfriend just a friend. He's like she's here if you want to ask her I say no. At this point I'm slightly annoyed and go in on him about lying and then he starts talking about how he has feelings for me it's me that's pushing him away and we should been married by now. That is when this woman he was apparently in the car with flips off! She starts calling me a B**tch and for him to get the F out her car. I hear all this shuffling and the phone hangs up. He calls back can barely speak and I'm like what's going on cause at this point I'm afraid for him. The fool is still in the car and the girl goes off again and all he say is shut your mouth your being disrespectful:/
Finally he's like he'll call me later. He does but he says he's at a hotel cause she tore his clothes and can't go home ( lives with parents still). We spoke for like 2 mins then he had to go I think he was with the woman still and she came back cause he calls 2 hours later to say he's safe and not to worry. I ask if he's with her he says no but I don't believe him. He then sends me a long text apologizing for his behavior and he knows he put both of us in an uncomfortable position and not to think he meant to hurt me and that he's not the way I think he is.
Now I know this should not bother me because we are not together but I would like to think I can have a decent relationship with an ex without no drama. We broke up cause I just was not feeling the relationship and I know I hurt him so I try to remain friendly but when one of his girls calls me out my name that crosses the line. Also it makes me wonder what type of woman he's involve with. If I were her I'd drop him home and be finish not attack and act crazy. All that just reminded me of one of my longer relationships and the drama. Woman calling left and right but I suffered in silence never called any of the woman just one day had enough courage to walk away. Things like this are what make me relieved I'm single seriously!
About 10 minutes later he calls back and I ask why he has other woman answering his phone. He then says oh she's a special friend and she can do that. So I dig further and say I thought you said you did not have a girlfriend and he goes she's not my girlfriend just a friend. He's like she's here if you want to ask her I say no. At this point I'm slightly annoyed and go in on him about lying and then he starts talking about how he has feelings for me it's me that's pushing him away and we should been married by now. That is when this woman he was apparently in the car with flips off! She starts calling me a B**tch and for him to get the F out her car. I hear all this shuffling and the phone hangs up. He calls back can barely speak and I'm like what's going on cause at this point I'm afraid for him. The fool is still in the car and the girl goes off again and all he say is shut your mouth your being disrespectful:/
Finally he's like he'll call me later. He does but he says he's at a hotel cause she tore his clothes and can't go home ( lives with parents still). We spoke for like 2 mins then he had to go I think he was with the woman still and she came back cause he calls 2 hours later to say he's safe and not to worry. I ask if he's with her he says no but I don't believe him. He then sends me a long text apologizing for his behavior and he knows he put both of us in an uncomfortable position and not to think he meant to hurt me and that he's not the way I think he is.
Now I know this should not bother me because we are not together but I would like to think I can have a decent relationship with an ex without no drama. We broke up cause I just was not feeling the relationship and I know I hurt him so I try to remain friendly but when one of his girls calls me out my name that crosses the line. Also it makes me wonder what type of woman he's involve with. If I were her I'd drop him home and be finish not attack and act crazy. All that just reminded me of one of my longer relationships and the drama. Woman calling left and right but I suffered in silence never called any of the woman just one day had enough courage to walk away. Things like this are what make me relieved I'm single seriously!