TayMac
Well-Known Member
I will try to make this short.
I met a nice guy (meets most of my requirements) when I was shopping in 2007. We dated for a little bit, I met some of his friends, some family, intimate a couple of times, and I made the well-known mistake of not talking status beforehand. He gives me the "I don't want to rush and things not work out" spiel. So I go my own way seeing he's not wanting what I'm wanting.
He continued to text/call at various times and makes attempts to see me and I blew him off and was basically rude and blunt saying "leave me alone and you had your chance."
FF to the present and I'm still getting the infrequent calls/texts which I decide are just to feel me out and see what my status is. Of course I'm stiillll single and I give in and talk to him. THIS time he's says he is ready for the serious and I'm very nonchalant about it remembering the past.
When I talk to him I get the feeling he is desperate and it's like I'm his last hope at finding someoneerplexed. Everytime we talk it's "I want to see you on your terms...it doesn't matter what we do..anytime with you is better than none blah blah blah. I say that I don't have much free time and it's hard to get a sitter and he even suggest kid friendly places so my daughter can come too. So I'm like..hmmm are you really that interested or desperate?
Side notes: I have a kid and he doesn't. We live an hour apart.
I met a nice guy (meets most of my requirements) when I was shopping in 2007. We dated for a little bit, I met some of his friends, some family, intimate a couple of times, and I made the well-known mistake of not talking status beforehand. He gives me the "I don't want to rush and things not work out" spiel. So I go my own way seeing he's not wanting what I'm wanting.
He continued to text/call at various times and makes attempts to see me and I blew him off and was basically rude and blunt saying "leave me alone and you had your chance."
FF to the present and I'm still getting the infrequent calls/texts which I decide are just to feel me out and see what my status is. Of course I'm stiillll single and I give in and talk to him. THIS time he's says he is ready for the serious and I'm very nonchalant about it remembering the past.
When I talk to him I get the feeling he is desperate and it's like I'm his last hope at finding someoneerplexed. Everytime we talk it's "I want to see you on your terms...it doesn't matter what we do..anytime with you is better than none blah blah blah. I say that I don't have much free time and it's hard to get a sitter and he even suggest kid friendly places so my daughter can come too. So I'm like..hmmm are you really that interested or desperate?
Side notes: I have a kid and he doesn't. We live an hour apart.