i would not do it because i believe in friendship and i have 4 fabulous female friends that mean the world to me.
i dated a friends ex once by accident and the chick hates me to this very day. Her and i were the type of friends that you party with every now and then. We were at a club and he tried to talk to me but at the time i was engaged to be married so i shut the brotha down with a quickness.
I ended up running in to him 2 years later and he asked me out and i was no longer engaged (the brotha looked like a big chocolate kiss) so i said yes. We dated for 7 months and decided to move in together because he was in the Navy and he was always at my house anyway.
About two months after he moved in, we were at a barbecue in the park with friends and i ran into my old female friend. We were talking and she started telling me about her ex-boyfriend that had came home one day and packed his bags and never spoke to her again. i was comforting her and telling her how sorry i was to hear that until she told me who he was. She said, " remember the guy that tried to talk to you in the club that time we went out?" I was speechless all of 5 minutes, then i told her that him and i were living together.
She hit the roof and started saying how could i date her ex!! I tried to explained that i didn't know it was her ex but she said i had to of known he had a girl or something.
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I felt so bad for her because when i called him over where we were he told me everything and said he has not spoken to her since the night he left.
After that, every time him and i went somewhere together she was cutting a sista with her eyes and trying to get things started. i finally gave up on her and wished her well in my mind.
Him and i are friends to this day but i did come to believe that he is a good man but not the right man for me but i just hate that she was hurting because i did consider her a friend back then.
sorry for the long story but i still get heated 15 years later every stime i think of it because it is an unspoken rule that no matter what you do not date you friends or causal friends ex.
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