itismehmmkay
Well-Known Member
I changed your tires and left some money for stuff
was the text I just got.
And I didn't even know my tires were low?
Damn.
He gone get it
Damn, I love that negro!
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I changed your tires and left some money for stuff
was the text I just got.
And I didn't even know my tires were low?
Damn.
He gone get it
I changed your tires and left some money for stuff
was the text I just got.
And I didn't even know my tires were low?
Damn.
He gone get it
He's a keeper!
I wish I could find one like him that didn't have "issues".
Blossoming^
New Member
he's def a keeper. It's a beautiful thing when a man just takes care of business for you without you even asking or asking just once.
NYAmicas
Seeker
You aint lying, DH says thats what men are supposed to do but he knows the deal. There are a lot of triffling no good men out there it seems from stories I read here.
He sounds like a great guy OP.itismehmmkay
Well-Known Member
We did have a lil convo last week (I guess it was sparked after I read that Boyfriend/Stipend thread
) and it rolled into our thoughts on male/female roles in a household. Well, blahblahblah I guess I got what was a stipend a few days after 
Then early in the week, he came in and said my tire looked low. I was just like "Oh, okay...hmm" (I take public transportation to work so I never really notice my car like that during the week.) Then the next day he was like, leave your key so I can check on it. So I did. When I came home, it didn't look like anything was done, but I didn't say nothing. I just cooked up a bunch of food and left him some breakfast for this morning
And voila I guess.
Damn, I feel like baking a cake or something
and/or getting some benwa balls
Yep, that's right.You aint lying, DH says thats what men are supposed to do but he knows the deal. There are a lot of triffling no good men out there it seems from stories I read here.
I changed your tires and left some money for stuff
was the text I just got.
And I didn't even know my tires were low?
Damn.
He gone get it
You sound like you're gonna tear him up.
Likeyouneverseenme
New Member
Aw, that's sweet.
He is definitely a keeper.
He is definitely a keeper.
MizzBrown
Well-Known Member
We did have a lil convo last week (I guess it was sparked after I read that Boyfriend/Stipend thread
Then early in the week, he came in and said my tire looked low. I was just like "Oh, okay...hmm" (I take public transportation to work so I never really notice my car like that during the week.) Then the next day he was like, leave your key so I can check on it. So I did. When I came home, it didn't look like anything was done, but I didn't say nothing. I just cooked up a bunch of food and left him some breakfast for this morning
And voila I guess.
Damn, I feel like baking a cake or something
and/or getting some benwa balls
NOooooo! You did not get your "stipend"! LOL This is soo funny!itismehmmkay
Well-Known Member
You sound like you're gonna tear him up.
Uh, yes ma'am
I don't even know.Our rhythm has been real cool lately though
I am so much more convinced that it really is about communicating (still keeping in mind how it's done though)
~~HoneyComb~~
Well-Known Member
Men don't realize how much of a turn-on that this can be for their DW/SO, helping out and being thoughtful, just because, is such an aphrodiasic.
MissLawyerLady
New Member
Men who take care of their business (and outside the bedroom is just as important as in it) are very sexy.
Does your man have any like-minded brothers? If so, PM me
Does your man have any like-minded brothers? If so, PM me
itismehmmkay
Well-Known Member
Men who take care of their business (and outside the bedroom is just as important as in it) are very sexy.
Does your man have any like-minded brothers? If so, PM me
I'll keep a lookout. All his homeboys are married or about to be though.And you see how she made sure she fixed him that plate afterwards right?
Do the right thing and we'll do the right thing in return.
Already; I'm over here trying to figure out what I'mma cook tonight.
msdeevee
Well-Known Member
We did have a lil convo last week (I guess it was sparked after I read that Boyfriend/Stipend thread
Then early in the week, he came in and said my tire looked low. I was just like "Oh, okay...hmm" (I take public transportation to work so I never really notice my car like that during the week.) Then the next day he was like, leave your key so I can check on it. So I did. When I came home, it didn't look like anything was done, but I didn't say nothing. I just cooked up a bunch of food and left him some breakfast for this morning
And voila I guess.
Damn, I feel like baking a cake or something
Bake that cake girl... maybe a sock it to me cake. He'll know how much you liked his thoughtfulness.
and/or getting some benwa balls
I wub him, that's my kind of guy. LHCF will give a sista some ideas. I told my dh how it would be nice if on Sundays he filled up my tank and got my car washed, the first chance he got to, he did it. I was like awww shucky shucky. He hasn't done it since though
Bring it up and tell him how good it made you feel.
My DH does a lot for me too and I'm working on showing appreciation more. I take a lot for granted.
Crackers Phinn
Either A Blessing Or A Lesson.
We did have a lil convo last week (I guess it was sparked after I read that Boyfriend/Stipend thread
Then early in the week, he came in and said my tire looked low. I was just like "Oh, okay...hmm" (I take public transportation to work so I never really notice my car like that during the week.) Then the next day he was like, leave your key so I can check on it. So I did. When I came home, it didn't look like anything was done, but I didn't say nothing. I just cooked up a bunch of food and left him some breakfast for this morning
And voila I guess.
Damn, I feel like baking a cake or something
and/or getting some benwa balls
And see this is how it's supposed to work, both ya'll are mutually benefitting (he gets his when you get yours) and both are happy.
It's a beautiful thing.
I wub him, that's my kind of guy. LHCF will give a sista some ideas. I told my dh how it would be nice if on Sundays he filled up my tank and got my car washed, the first chance he got to, he did it. I was like awww shucky shucky. He hasn't done it since though
Did you throw him a lil treat for doing it? You gots to reward good behavior so that it'll get repeated.
Lady Esquire
New Member
He's doing his job. Now go give him, as a token of your appreciation, a really great job of your own.
hopeful
Well-Known Member
Bring it up and tell him how good it made you feel.
My DH does a lot for me too and I'm working on showing appreciation more. I take a lot for granted.
Ya'll I was so sweet to him. I told him he made me feel like a princess and thank you and
lol! I do think he did do it one other time maybe, I can't remember. But I'm going to bring it up again on Saturday and talk about how sweet it was and give him a little treat lol.
itismehmmkay
Well-Known Member
Damn baby??
Also, I made some chicken enchiladas and got him some brownies
Also, I made some chicken enchiladas and got him some brownies
I changed your tires and left some money for stuff
was the text I just got.
And I didn't even know my tires were low?
Damn.
He gone get it
AND that is what men are susposed to do
I can always tell if a man is decent by things like this--men are susposed to "help" you do things like that. He seems like a good guy.
vivEz daNs lamouR
Well-Known Member
Funny, thats EXACTLY what I do with Samson.
...Although he's a dog, so WTH would I know
itismehmmkay
Well-Known Member
So I just texted him:
If you need anything from the store, just write it on the paper
We just gone keep that flow going.
If you need anything from the store, just write it on the paper
We just gone keep that flow going.
Sly
New Member
We did have a lil convo last week (I guess it was sparked after I read that Boyfriend/Stipend thread
Then early in the week, he came in and said my tire looked low. I was just like "Oh, okay...hmm" (I take public transportation to work so I never really notice my car like that during the week.) Then the next day he was like, leave your key so I can check on it. So I did. When I came home, it didn't look like anything was done, but I didn't say nothing. I just cooked up a bunch of food and left him some breakfast for this morning
And voila I guess.
Damn, I feel like baking a cake or something
and/or getting some benwa balls
. . . and you should.
Showing appreciation to men for what they do (when not asked) goes a long way 
that's alright!
lkg4healthyhair
New Member
I changed your tires and left some money for stuff
was the text I just got.
And I didn't even know my tires were low?
Damn.
He gone get it
This is so sweet....I am dating a guy who is like this and I love it. He takes out my trash, detailed my car and came to my salsa class and waited for me for 2 hours so that he could walk me to my car. Loves it!!
alwayzalady22
New Member
::gets notepad and pen and sprints to stipend thread::
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