kblc06
Well-Known Member
I don't even know why I bothered, but here goes. This guy starts messaging me via IM and it goes as follows. It's incredibly ironic as Indians, Middle-Eastern men, and Hispanics are the most likely ones to hit up my profile. Dude, it says I'm black on my page. Not black+other, or black+Grand Jeep Cherokee . I tried to spit a lil bit of knowledge but I think it fell on deaf ears. And he had the nerve to ask me to meet tonight . I took a screenshot, but I couldn't paste all of the convo
Him: r u indian?
Me: no i'm not
do i look it
Him: you mean feather indian or dot indian?
Me: either, there's an reason you asked- it says black on my page
Him: well i thought you were feather indian
Him: you know casino indian
Him: lol
Me: i wish i had casino money lol
Him: so you're just brown?
Me: black yes
Him: like you're an african american?
Him: but all of us are mixed with something arent we
Me:that's what it says on my profile
Him: and you like african americans?
Me: well of course but i don't discriminate
Him: but no i mean
Him: do you like the african american culture?
Me: ummm yes, we have a very rich cultural legacy in this country. not just what you see in mainstream media and hip hop videos
Him: i agree that africans have a rich cultural legacy. but african americans can come off rather different
Me: it just depends on who you've been exposed to. one could say the same for asians or arabs too
one shouldn't stereotype
Him: yeah but
Him: there are always dominant features in an ethnicity
Him: like we persians
tend to have certain qualities, that apply to most of us statistically speaking
Me: physically or culturally? I would think the history of AAs is one that's entirely different from voluntary immigrant groups, especially considering the laws that kept us oppressed have only been repealed within the last 3 to 4 decades. (not counting profiling)
Him: right, but still there is a persistence with vulgar language and apparel within AAs, statistically compared to other ethnicities
Me: that may be what's presented as mainstream, but that's definitely not the reality for AAs like myself or many others that I know. It's what's considered "marketable" but it would be foolish to believe that a certain aspect of a culture encompasses all 40 million of us
Him: again, statistically speaking, is more present in AAs
like *** hanging out of pants
statistically you see that more among AAs
Him: do you disagree?
Me: if I were to believe everything that is presented statistically about people of middle eastern descent I would believe that they were all religious zealots who have a tendencies towards violence against women and suicide bombers
Me: but that wouldn't be true would it
Me: and yes i would disagree
Him: i actually would say, that statistically speaking, middle eastern men abuse their women, more so than other ethnicities
Him: stereotyping is bad, but we should not erase a problem if it is persistent within an ethnicity
Me: I can agree with that but there are lots of different variables at play that would explain the prevalence of a particular behavior
Him: so what is the main reason or reasons behind the different attitude and language portrayed by some AAs?
Me: poverty, lack of exposure to different societal norms, etc
but I can only speak for myself because as one individual out of millions, I can't possibly begin to explain the behavior another person simply because we share the same complexion
Me: I wouldn't expect you to act as the spokesperson for all Persians or Iranians
Him: r u indian?
Me: no i'm not
do i look it
Him: you mean feather indian or dot indian?
Me: either, there's an reason you asked- it says black on my page
Him: well i thought you were feather indian
Him: you know casino indian
Him: lol
Me: i wish i had casino money lol
Him: so you're just brown?
Me: black yes
Him: like you're an african american?
Him: but all of us are mixed with something arent we
Me:that's what it says on my profile
Him: and you like african americans?
Me: well of course but i don't discriminate
Him: but no i mean
Him: do you like the african american culture?
Me: ummm yes, we have a very rich cultural legacy in this country. not just what you see in mainstream media and hip hop videos
Him: i agree that africans have a rich cultural legacy. but african americans can come off rather different
Me: it just depends on who you've been exposed to. one could say the same for asians or arabs too
one shouldn't stereotype
Him: yeah but
Him: there are always dominant features in an ethnicity
Him: like we persians
tend to have certain qualities, that apply to most of us statistically speaking
Me: physically or culturally? I would think the history of AAs is one that's entirely different from voluntary immigrant groups, especially considering the laws that kept us oppressed have only been repealed within the last 3 to 4 decades. (not counting profiling)
Him: right, but still there is a persistence with vulgar language and apparel within AAs, statistically compared to other ethnicities
Me: that may be what's presented as mainstream, but that's definitely not the reality for AAs like myself or many others that I know. It's what's considered "marketable" but it would be foolish to believe that a certain aspect of a culture encompasses all 40 million of us
Him: again, statistically speaking, is more present in AAs
like *** hanging out of pants
statistically you see that more among AAs
Him: do you disagree?
Me: if I were to believe everything that is presented statistically about people of middle eastern descent I would believe that they were all religious zealots who have a tendencies towards violence against women and suicide bombers
Me: but that wouldn't be true would it
Me: and yes i would disagree
Him: i actually would say, that statistically speaking, middle eastern men abuse their women, more so than other ethnicities
Him: stereotyping is bad, but we should not erase a problem if it is persistent within an ethnicity
Me: I can agree with that but there are lots of different variables at play that would explain the prevalence of a particular behavior
Him: so what is the main reason or reasons behind the different attitude and language portrayed by some AAs?
Me: poverty, lack of exposure to different societal norms, etc
but I can only speak for myself because as one individual out of millions, I can't possibly begin to explain the behavior another person simply because we share the same complexion
Me: I wouldn't expect you to act as the spokesperson for all Persians or Iranians
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