kismettt
Well-Known Member
I remember reading somewhere that truly loving someone is to want them to be happy with someone else, if they can't be with you.
So, could you be happy for your SO/DH if they found someone that does make them happy (who obviously isn't you).
I hope I'm not making this confusing. & by finding someone else, i mean your relationship ends (right now, as is), and they find someone else. no they aren't cheating/whatever.
Basically, do you love your SO enough to want them to be happy even if it is not with you?
Is that a requirement of "truly loving someone"?
So, could you be happy for your SO/DH if they found someone that does make them happy (who obviously isn't you).
I hope I'm not making this confusing. & by finding someone else, i mean your relationship ends (right now, as is), and they find someone else. no they aren't cheating/whatever.
Basically, do you love your SO enough to want them to be happy even if it is not with you?
Is that a requirement of "truly loving someone"?