I must be a scientific mistake then, because my relaxed hair surely was heavier than my natural hair, my heat straightened hair can be very 'wispy' unless I use/do the right things. I didnt post this up-thread, but I also feel your hair looks natural while straightened-which is not a bad thing of course-it looks like what it is
re: This thread, whenever people make generalizations about another's hair choice there are going to be people taking offense. This goes both ways of course... Natural or relaxed. I do feel that Natural hair overall was glorified in this thread many times over. Its fine that naturals' feel that way, again, its the generalizations that are stated as 'sweeping across the board' that are offensive. And that did take place in this thread, people aren't just seeing things. There are no 'across the board' absolute truths about either Natural or Relaxed hair. Every head of hair is different. This thread was an invite to speak about 'other's' hair, that's where the problem comes in.So I will just speak for 'me'. Although I feel that 'My' natural hair is more healthy ,way more thicker and longer than it ever was with a relaxer. This would not apply to everyone.
For my hair, there is a HUGE difference when I heat straighten than when I was relaxed, there is ALOT more hair, although I can get it straight, not one single product yet has proven to fight of ANY moisture that might be in the air that will make it revert. My pressed hair almost always has texture to it and if it doesnt start out that way-its only a matter of time
as far as telling on other people, I don't feel I can, I wouldn't bother to even. I know for a fact there are healthy beautiful Thick relaxed heads. I could never assume by that fact or 'appearance' alone that they are natural.