CALLING THE NEXT CHICK....... HAVE YOU DONE IT B4??????

mscurly

mscurly

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I have NEVER called up the next chick that my guy or some guy I'm interested in is dealing with. I've always been on the receiving end. Why do yall do ish like that? What is that gonna do?

For me sometimes that makes me keep dealing with the dude just to spite your arse. Most times the guy doesn't stop talking to her and all that does it make you look dumb as hell.


I'm dating this guy right now. I met his family spent time with him all that. Never slept together and now I get some crazy b!@tch calling and texting me talking about leave my man alone.

What is up with that????

I know some of yall have been that psycho b!@tch calling up another woman
 
mscurly said:
Of course. I always deal with the man not the chick cause I don't know that b!@tch.

He said it was some chick that he used to mess with off and on and she crazy bla bla bla
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Uh... you sure he still not messin with her on the sly?:look: Or even contacting or encouraging her in some small way?

I aint never did that btw. I've known women who have simply because they were scorned and wanted to bust it up with the next chick. Just spite.

However, sometimes, where's the smoke there's fire...
 
mscurly said:
Of course. I always deal with the man not the chick cause I don't know that b!@tch.

He said it was some chick that he used to mess with off and on and she crazy bla bla bla
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She very well could be. BUT, sometimes there's a reason behind this type of behavior. Not excusing it at all, I'm just saying.
 
DarkJoy said:
Uh... you sure he still not messin with her on the sly?:look: Or even contacting or encouraging her in some small way?

I aint never did that btw. I've known women who have simply because they were scorned and wanted to bust it up with the next chick. Just spite.

However, sometimes, where's the smoke there's fire...
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You beat me to it.
 
I'll bite....I did when I was 19 and my bf was cheating on me. I wasn't mean or anything I just asked her if she was dating him because I found her number in his phone and I was suspicious. I didn't go on the whole "leave my man alone, blah blah blah" psycho girl thing . I just wanted confirmation.
 
He must still be doing something with her for her to have your phone number.

And you know men love to call women crazy. That doesn't mean she's crazy. It just means, he wants YOU to think she's crazy for his benefit. Because if he can get you to think she is crazy, then you'll believe the lies that he tells surrounding him and her. He may be telling you that she's crazy while he's over there sleeping with her.
 
Ive never done it but had it done to me a few times. I think the last time was in 97 lol.
for her to have your number in the first place shows they still dealling w/ each other.
 
I've gotten that call and the crazy woman called my JOB! I had already stopped dating him months prior but he was looking for a job at my firm and reached out. I called him back about his resume and left my office number. I spoke to him briefly later that day and told him he should probably change his voicemail password.
 
I wouldn't be so quick to dismiss the "crazy" chick's actions. There's a reason she's acting like that. Men love to make their exes crazy and downplay situations (on and off, not serious, just someone I used to hang out with, etc)!!!
 
mscurly said:
I have NEVER called up the next chick that my guy or some guy I'm interested in is dealing with. I've always been on the receiving end. Why do yall do ish like that? What is that gonna do?

For me sometimes that makes me keep dealing with the dude just to spite your arse. Most times the guy doesn't stop talking to her and all that does it make you look dumb as hell.

I'm dating this guy right now. I met his family spent time with him all that. Never slept together and now I get some crazy b!@tch calling and texting me talking about leave my man alone.

What is up with that????

I know some of yall have been that psycho b!@tch calling up another woman
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This has happened to you multiple times? I've gotten a call once. I couldn't get out of that relationship fast enough.

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Most times the other chick isn't even crazy, maybe immature and a bit naive.
Its sounds like he is still seeing woman you call psycho otherwise how would she get your number. They must have been close enough recently for her to go through his phone and get your number.
obviously the way she is addressing you sounds crazy but for all she knows he could be telling her something other than the truth about you.
 
mscurly said:
I'm dating this guy right now. I met his family spent time with him all that. Never slept together and now I get some crazy b!@tch calling and texting me talking about leave my man alone. What is up with that???? I know some of yall have been that psycho b!@tch calling up another woman
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There is nothing psycho about her. They re having sex ,he s telling her stories while telling you that she s a crazy stalker .
I never called anyone ,I hate drama ,but I ve been contacted by another woman before . The man was trifling.
 
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I have had the next chick call me. He was on some bull and I knew it. She called and I told her to take care of him, have a nice life and to leave me alone. I told him he made his choice and there was nothing I could do about that.... deuces :ohwell:.
 
He's lying OP. They are sexing. Your not exclusive as you may have thought. Seeing him to spite her only benefits him and reaffirms your naivity to him.

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I have been on the receiving end of these phone calls. I suppose I can understand it. I just don't like when they come with the crazy.

I was seeing a guy for a while - nothing serious to me - and then one day I get to work and I have about 15 hang ups on my office phone from the same number. The 16th time she called she left a message, not talking to me but calling him out. "You don't want to talk to Kammy now? I got her on the line":blush: It was a mess. She called again in the afternoon and I told her I WAS willing to talk to her and let her know everything she wanted to know since I was mad that he had lied to us both. But since she had royally pissed me off and stalked me for the better part of a day I was leaving her to deal with the mess by herself.

I understand the desire to talk to the "other woman" Just don't be crazy about it. Damn.
 
Even if dude is lying to both, going thru the phone and calling the other woman/women is VERY pathetic and immature. So yes such women ARE crazy

woimen need to stop defending that pitiful mess.

Deal with the dude and leave it at that
 
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I've never done it. But I have had it done to me. I firmly believe my name was given to me on a deeper level. Lucie means light and all the things a man has done in the darkness will come into the light.

I find it extremely odd when women do this. Do you want her to tell you that your-her-man just ate her vagina and then you just kissed him? Do you want her to tell you that he is paying for her lifestyle while he won't even give you a MetroCard? Or whatever mess she is going to tell you? Plus, how many of these women really tell the complete truth? Even if they are cheating with your man, they are surely going to add MORE fuel to the fire.

If you want the truth, you just have to know it will come out, keep your eyes and ears open without you have to search for it. I only deal with women on two levels: for business (making money or getting financial tips) or pleasure (shopping, going out, doing mani-pedi's, et cetera). I have no time or grams of crud to give to discuss a man with another team player. If she is trying to one-up me she played herself because we obviously are playing for the same team, LOL!
 
*CherryPie* said:
He must still be doing something with her for her to have your phone number.

And you know men love to call women crazy. That doesn't mean she's crazy. It just means, he wants YOU to think she's crazy for his benefit. Because if he can get you to think she is crazy, then you'll believe the lies that he tells surrounding him and her. He may be telling you that she's crazy while he's over there sleeping with her.
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This is classic. They have you listening to their sob stories about how crazy/awful she is and after yall break up (because you will break up), he's right back with her.
 
Is the op coming back to answer questions?

I wanna know HOW she got your NUMBER???

I can't see any mentions on my IPhone. PM me if it is a must see. Allons y
 
FelaShrine said:
Even if dude is lying to both, going thru the phone and calling the other woman/women is VERY pathetic and immature. So yes such women ARE crazy

woimen need to stop defending that pitiful mess.

Deal with the dude and leave it at that
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exactly..im sorry but what i look like calling some chick i dont know looking /sounding desperate about 'my man'
 
I've never called the next woman. That's never occurred to me. I like to think that I have better things to do with my time. Sitting on the couch with my thumb up my butt would be time better spent than bothering the new chick of a guy I'm no longer seeing.
 
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