SheenaVee
Well-Known Member
So, we've finally got the date of our wedding finalised, ceremony booked, deposit for the reception venue put down. We're doing actual wedding plan now. I had a freak out after we'd booked the ceremony date. Like, omg this ish is really happening. But I'm warming up to it now
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I was originally going to have 6 bridesmaids. My 3 cousins and my 3 besties. Now I only want to have 3 (my cousins) because I feel like 6 is too much for the type of wedding I want. I want a 'small' wedding. Now, with the size of my fam it was never really gonna be that small, but I feel like having 6 bridesmaids will make it feel bigger than I want.
So the problem I have now is, how do I tell my friends I no longer want them to be bridesmaids? When I first got engaged and they asked if they were going to be bridesmaids I was all, well duh, of course. But since then we've all kind of grown apart. One of them isn't even living in London anymore. So I don't really think they'd mind too much if they weren't bridesmaids anymore, but it's still awkward. They'll still be invited to the wedding, of course.
So, how do you guys think I should tell them?
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I was originally going to have 6 bridesmaids. My 3 cousins and my 3 besties. Now I only want to have 3 (my cousins) because I feel like 6 is too much for the type of wedding I want. I want a 'small' wedding. Now, with the size of my fam it was never really gonna be that small, but I feel like having 6 bridesmaids will make it feel bigger than I want.
So the problem I have now is, how do I tell my friends I no longer want them to be bridesmaids? When I first got engaged and they asked if they were going to be bridesmaids I was all, well duh, of course. But since then we've all kind of grown apart. One of them isn't even living in London anymore. So I don't really think they'd mind too much if they weren't bridesmaids anymore, but it's still awkward. They'll still be invited to the wedding, of course.
So, how do you guys think I should tell them?