jrae
Well-Known Member
I need to end a dating relationship with a very nice man. I knew early on that it was not a match for me, but we get along very well and I enjoy our conversations. But a love interest? No, never. Attraction? Not at all.
He, on the other hand, is totally smitten. Has told his mother, young son, ex-wife, and close relatives about me. He knows I am dating others, but is satisfied that he gets the time he does with "a woman like me." He has been making plans for Valentine's Day for weeks and is ready for me to meet the family this weekend. [there has been no intimacy beyond holding hands]
He gives me all the attention, respect, and flattery I would like to get from the "right" man. Anyway.... How do I end this? Truth or a Lie?
Truth/Lie: I enjoy our friendship but I'm just not ready for a relationship.
Lie: Another relationship has taken a more serious turn that I would like to pursue (in my dreams!).
Truth: We are not a good match. We are at different places/phases/stations in our lives and I don't want to start over (as it were).
Suggestions?
He, on the other hand, is totally smitten. Has told his mother, young son, ex-wife, and close relatives about me. He knows I am dating others, but is satisfied that he gets the time he does with "a woman like me." He has been making plans for Valentine's Day for weeks and is ready for me to meet the family this weekend. [there has been no intimacy beyond holding hands]
He gives me all the attention, respect, and flattery I would like to get from the "right" man. Anyway.... How do I end this? Truth or a Lie?
Truth/Lie: I enjoy our friendship but I'm just not ready for a relationship.
Lie: Another relationship has taken a more serious turn that I would like to pursue (in my dreams!).
Truth: We are not a good match. We are at different places/phases/stations in our lives and I don't want to start over (as it were).
Suggestions?